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While SoME Men Don't Want To Settle Down And Claim A Girlfriend, Most
Men Don't Need Any "Girl...Friends" Either. After All, What A Man
Wants To Just "Hang Out" With A Beautiful Woman?
That's What This Boys Are For. It's Totally Possible For Men And Women
To Be Platonic Friends, But That's Not Normally HoW It Starts.
The Man Is Attracted To A Woman, He Asks Her Out, And They Spend Time
Together. But Then Somewhere Along The Line, Said Man Falls Into The
Dreaded "Friend Zone" - And He Has No Idea How He Got There. He's Not
Sure If She's Playing Hard To Get, Or If He's Been Hoodwinked - And
While He's Trying To Figure It All Out, The Woman Knows Exactly What
She's Doing. If You're Not Sure If You're Being Played For A FOOL,
Here Are Some Signs That She Just Might Be Using You. (And Indications
You're A Low-Key User•)
1• YOU ARE HER PERSONAL CHAUFFEUR:
You Have A Car... She Doesn't. This Is Not A Big Deal, And Being The
Gentleman You Are, You Have No Problem Picking Her Up For Dates. But
After A While, You're Not Just Picking Her Up To Go To The Movies.
You're Driving Her To Work, To Her Doctor's Appointment And Even To
Her Friend's House. As A Matter Of Fact, She Asks You To Drive Her AND
Her Friends Around - To The Club, The Mall, Wherever. But She's
Attractive, So You Do It, Even If It's Totally Out Of Your Way. The
Way You See It, She'll Think YoU Are A Nice Guy That She Might Even
Invite You INSIDE Of Her Home One Day.
But She Doesn't, aND Barely Get A Kiss On The Cheek For All Of The Gas
You've Burnt Up. If She's Giving You ZERO Indication That She's Even
Remotely Physically Attracted To You, Then She's Using You For A Ride.
Unless You've At Least Gotten A Second Base, Keep Your Car Parked And
Let Her Figure Out How To Get Around Herself•
2• YOU ARE HER FLUNKY:
It's Not Enough That You Drive Her Around, But Sometimes She Sends You
Out Without Her To Run Her Errands. She Asks You, In That Ever So
Sweet Voice Of Hers, To Pick Up Her Dry Cleaning "Since It's Your Way
Home." She Has To Work Late, So She Wants To Know If You'd Be A Dear
And Walk Her Precious Dog For Her. And You Do It, Because You Figure
That's What A Good Boyfriend Would Do, Right? Right.
Problem Is, You're Not Her Boyfriend, You Are Her Errand Boy; And Any
Hopes You Had Of Becoming Her Boyfriend Went Out The Window Along With
Your Dignity. She's Not Going To Date You Because She Doesn't Respect
You. Some Women Don't Like A Guy Who Does Whatever She Says Or Who
She Can Walk All Over. What You See As Kindness, She May View As
Weakness. It's Sad But True. There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Good
Friend, If That's All You Want To Be. But If You Want More, And She's
Not Giving It To You, Despite All Of Your Good Intentions, Then
Bounce... And Let Her Hire An Assistant•
3• YOU PLAY WITH OR BABYSIT HER KIDS:
Some Women Can Spot A Potentially Great Father (Figure) From A Mile
Away, Especially After They've Had Children With A Deadbeat. If You
Are A Good Father, Or Love Children, She May Decide To Date You Even
If She's Not Attracted To You. Some Single Mothers Have A Hard Time
Dating, Mainly Because They Can't Find Someone Who Wants To Deal With
Her AND Her Bad A** Kids. She Also May Want To Make Sure Her Potential
Mate Will Be A Good Fit For Her Family. If You Find That She's Always
Inviting You To Do "Family Things" Or Asks You To Watch Her Child(ren)
For Her, But Never Wants You To Do Any "Grown Up" Things With Her
Alone (Read: Sex), Then Chances Are She's Getting That From Someone
Else, While You Get To Play Dad. Word Of Advice? Don't Get Close To
Her Children Unless You're Sure You Can Get Close To Her First•
4• YOU ARE HER "GO-TO" DATE:
In The Beginning, It's Expected That All Of Your Dates Should Take
Place Outside Of Each Of Your Homes. After All, You Don't Want To Be
Too Presumptuous. But After A Few Months, You Should At Least Expect
Her To Invite You Over To Her Place For Dinner, Netflix... Something.
You Figure Maybe She Has Roomates, sO YoU Invite Her Over To Your
Place- But She Always Seems To Need To Wash And Twist Her Hair. If You
Find That She Only Wants To Go OUT- To The Movies, A Concert Or Her
Favourite Restaurant, Chances Are She Just Wants To Get Out Of The
House And You Are Her "Go-To" Date. Every Time She Calls, You're
Always Available... Probably Because You Sit Around Waiting For Your
Phone To Ring. She Knows This, And She ALSO KnowS That You Will Do
Anything To Be In Her Presence. If She's Always Busy When You Invite
Her To Your Crib Or You've Never Seen The Inside Of Her Place, Then
She Probably Doesn't Want To Be Anywhere Something Could Jump Off...
And She'd Have To Turn You Down. Just Once Or Twice, Be Busy When She
Calls Or Tell Her "NO" To An Outside Date And See How She Reacts. If
She's Bent Out Of Shape Or Stops Calling, Then You'll Know She's
Probably Not That Into YOU•
5• YOU PAY FOR ALL DATES:
Not Only Are You Her "Go-To" Date- You Also PAY For ALL Of The Dates.
She Might Buy You A Candy Bar Or A Soda At The Movies... But Usually
You Are The One Coming Out-Of-Pocket, Whether That Means Spending $200
On Dinner Or A Grip On Beyonce Concert Tickets. Some Women Expect Men
To Pay For All Dates, And Some Men Even Agree With That. But You
Shouldn't Be Going Broke While You're Trying To Figure If She Actually
Even Likes You. If You've Got The Means To Stick It Out Until She
Magically Falls In Love With You, Then ROCK ON. But If You Have To
Take Out A Small Loan Just To Keep Courting This Woman, While She
NEVER Ever Offers To Pay For Coffee, Then Stop...NOW. See How Long She
Wants To "Date" You When You Tell Her That You Forgot Your Wallet•
6• YOU PAY HER BILLS:
It's One Thing To Pay For Dates. But It's Another Thing To Pay Her
Rent. There's Nothing Wrong With Helping Out A Friend In Need, Or
LOANING Someone Money Until They Get On Their Feet. But Unless You Are
Her MAN, And You KNOW This, Tgen There Is No Way You Should Be Paying
For Anything That's In Her Name. I Would Have Qualified This With SEX,
But Some Women Will Give Up The Goodies To Have HBO, So We Won't Go
There. But If You Ain't Sleeping With Her, Then There's No Way You
Should Be Paying For Her To Have Cable. Men And Women Use Each Other
All The Time For Different Things, But You're A Straight Up SuCKA If
She Hands You A Utility Bill And Actually Pay It... Regularly. And
Don't Try Taking Her To Court When She Drops You For Some Other Fool
And You're Out Hundreds Or Thousands Of Dollars. She'll Claim It Was A
"Gift" And You'll Never Get Your Money Back•
7• YOU ARE MR. FIX IT:
You've Let It Be Known That You Are Pretty Handy When It Comes To
Fixing Things, So She Invites You Over One Saturday Afternoon To
"Help" Her Paint Her House. You Think It'll Earn You Some Cool Points-
And You'll Get To Be INSIDE Her Place And You Can Seduce Her While YOU
Wait For The Paint To Dry. WRONG! All She's Going To Do Is Find A Way
To Be Busy "Doing Something Else" While You Paint, And When You're
Done, She'll Suddenly Need A Ride To Home Depot To Pick Up Some Things
For The Next Project You'll Be Working On. So You Drive Her There (See
#1) And Pay For All The Materials (See #5) And Then Go Back To Her
Place To Install Her New Cabinets, Hang Some Shelves And Fix Her Leaky
Faucet. She Doesn't Even Offer To Feed You (See #4). She Rushes You
Out Of Her House When The Work Is Done Because She's "Tired" (Has A
Date With Someone Else) So YOU Leave, Hoping For Another Chance To Get
Closer To Her Bedroom. You, My Friend, Have Been Had. Next Time, Tell
Her To Hire A Contractor And Keep It Moving•
8• YOU ARE HER CONFIDANTE:
So By Now, You Realize That You're In The "Friend Zone", But You Don't
Care. You Think You Still Have A Chance To WOO HER, So You Continue To
Be Her Shoulder To Cry On Hoping That One Day She'll Come To Her
Senses And Realize What A Wonderful, Caring, And Compassionate Man You
Are. So You Endure Endless Hours Of Her Late Night Calls Crying To You
About The Jerk Who Broke He Heart Again. You Encourage Her Complaints
About All The No Good Men Out There And Remind Her That If She Were
Your Woman, You'd Never Hurt Her And Treat Her Like The Queen That She
Is. Little Do You Know That She's A Glutton For Punishment, Only Likes
"Bad Boys" And Think Nice Guys Like You Are Weak And Pathetic. Dude,
Run... Or Else She'll Just Continue To Use You Up And Walk Al Over
You. You're Wasting Your Time If You Think She'll ChanGE Her Mind
About You- And If She Finally Ever Does, It'll Be Too Late... Because
You Will Have Found A wOman Who Appreciates YOU•
9• YOU ARE HER SEX TOY:
Now, This Might Not Be A Problem For Most Men Out There, But If You
Are Genuinely Interested In Having A Real Relationship, Getting
Married And Having Kids One Day, Then You Might Want To Find A Woman
Who Wants You For More Sex. Believe It Or Not, There Are Women Out
There, Like Men, Who Have Jump-Offs Who They Will NeveR Be Seen Out In
Public With. The Sex Is Earth Shattering, But She Doesn't Want A
Relationship Or, She Doesn't Want A Relationship With You.
Maybe You're Too Short, Don't Have A Job, Have Multiple Children With
Multiple Women, Have Some Teeth Missing... Who Knows. Either Way, She
Doesn't Want HeR Girlfriends To Know About You, So You Become Her
Dirty Little Secret And She Calls You After Midnight To Come By And
Crack Her Back. Now, Again... Some, If Not Most, Men Would Be Fine
With This Arrangement. But If You've Somehow Caught Feelings For Her,
Then It's Best You Leave Now Before Your Heart Gets Broken Into A
Million Little Pieces Once She Finds A Guy She Can Actually Be Seen In
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