Friday 2 November 2012

TOP 10: REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT!!!

Blame It On The Genes In troubled relationships, cheating can be an
easy alternative to the burden of a
breakup or the agony of divorce.
It's a quick fix for the sake of the couple's or the family's
integrity. Some of us have even gone so far as to enact the
long-distance code: If you cheat
in another zip code, it doesn't
count. And with evolutionary psychologists telling us that we
are wired to lay our seeds in as
many women as possible to ensure our genetic survival,
adultery is slowly becoming a defensible misdeed, which may explain
why women are catching up to men in the game of infidelity. Because of
our insatiable appetite for sex, we men can sometimes only be as
faithful as our options. Here are the 10 main reasons why some men
will opt to shed their devotion and cheat on their partners.

#1. YOUR LADY DOESN'T PUT OUT: Every man has heard that the
best way to get a woman to stop having sex with him is by marrying
her. Apparently, long- term relationships seem to suck the sex drive
out of many women, leaving men gasping for fulfillment. With the need
for more sex, some men will start "working late" more often. Or it
could just be that the sex has become boring. She doesn't want to try
new things in bed, or won't perform fellatio. Some men may cheat
because they don't want their girlfriends or wives to perform certain
sex acts that would ruin their "good girl" image, so they get a
mistress to take care of it. Like
Robert de Niro said in Analyze
This , "That's the mouth she kisses my kids good night with!" In light
of this, I call on lawmakers around the world to create an
International BJ Day, where men and women get the day off from work
and get all
the oral satisfaction they need from their partners. I'll bet that
this alone would cut infidelity by at least 75%.

#2. SHE CHEATED ON YOU: So you found out your lady was being
unfaithful, and the only way you can relieve your anger is by doing
the same. For many men, this is the only way to get back at their
cheating girlfriends and even the score. Some men might even cheat to
get back at all the cheating women they've had the misfortune of
dating throughout
their lives; now that's efficiency.

#3. It's CHALENGING AND EXCITING: If you consider the women you sleep
with "sexual trophies," chances are you have already cheated at least
once in your life. Some men simply cannot
leave behind the thrill of the hunt, the chase and the
conquest. For other men, the
excitement is in the variety, like
changing ice cream flavors for one day after years of sticking to just one.

#4. YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH IT: "What eyes don't see, the heart doesn't
feel," goes the old adage, and it still holds true, as long as there
are no cameras around. The knowledge that no one will find out and no
one will get hurt is reason enough for
some men to grab a different helping. But be careful; as men
get craftier with avoiding detection, women get more sophisticated
with detecting, not to mention boosting their network of spies.

#5. It BOOSTS THEIR EGO: Nothing lifts the old self-esteem like
discovering that other women still desire you sexually. When in
long-term relationships,
men may begin to question their
sexual marketability, which will lead some of them to sow their
clandestine wild oats. Once a man
knows he can get back in the game, he'll return to his mate; or not.
What's a guy to do when his girlfriend's-a-naggin' and opportunity
comes-a-knockin'?


#6. THE OPPORTUNITY WAS THERE: It's an uncontested fact that most men
can't say "no" to sex. Although guys aren't constantly bombarded with
sexual offers, sometimes an irresistible prospect presents itself.
Maybe it's a frisky ex-girlfriend, maybe
it's a horny hottie on the dance floor. A guy may see it as once-
in-a-lifetime occasion that might never be available again. Carpe diem
, as they say.

#7. WHEN A GIRLFRIEND Is A NAG :Most men have experienced at least one
woman who thrives on making him feel like crap. Constant nagging,
fighting and squabbling in the right ratios is the best recipe for a
headache. Cheating with another woman is a common escape from this
domestic hell, and works
better than aspirin.

#8. WOMEN LET Us: Truth be told, women are quick
to forgive men for their unfaithful behavior. Maybe it's their fear of
being alone, or that women are simply the more
merciful ones of the human species. Some women might even blame
themselves for their men's infidelities, and take steps to
improve their relationships. The
fact that many women let their
men get away with CHEATING, And It might compel them to double deal repeatedly.

#9. SHE DOES NOT TURN HIM ON
ANYMORE: Long-term relationships have the annoying habit of making people
lazy. No longer concerned with
staying fit and attractive, a
committed woman might lose the
allure she once had. Her man may simply not find her beautiful
anymore, and making love to her
is not as stirring as it once was.
This is why most mistresses are
gorgeous, young women.

#10. YOU DON'T LOVE HER ANYMORE: Alas, after a long time together,
you have lost the feelings you
once had for her. But the relationship has remained too
much a part of you. Separating
seems so painful, so radical that it's almost inconceivable. So
instead of separating, you go
elsewhere to get your physical gratification. Most times this does not
help matters, but only prolongs the inevitable breakup. Your Cheating
Heart In the end, cheating is no joking matter. If you are cheating on
your girlfriend or wife, it might be that you are unhappy in the
relationship, or that you have
issues that you should address. Look at the big picture and see
your unfaithfulness as a symptom of a bigger problem. Cheating might
feel good as a
quick escape from your problems, but it's only an anesthetic -- not a
long-term solution.

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