DON'T LET YOUR EGO RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS•••
Ego Has A ROle In SpOiling Many RelatiOnships, And It's NOt Just A
PrOblem With PeOple Who Are Dating. Ego Can Ruin Friendships And Put A
Wedge Between Family Members, Too. If YOu Have Had A String Of
Unsuccessful RelatiOnships, YOu Need To Let Go Of YOur Ego And Take A
Step FOrward TOward True Happiness.
¤ EGO VS• SELF-ESTEEM••••
Being EgOstistical Is Generally COnsidered Negative, While Having High
Levels Of Self-Esteem Is POsitive. So, What's The Difference? An
Egotistical PersOn's Self-WOrth Is Driven By External FactOrs---
Primarily Feedback FrOm Others. A PersOn With High Self-Esteem's Sense
Of Self-WOrth Is Determined By Internal FactOrs Such As PassiOn,
Belief Or PersOnal VisiOn.
PeOple With Big EgOs Are Often Insecure And Trying To COver Up
Insecurities By Pretending To Be ImpOrtant Or Better Than EveryOne
Else. ThOse With Big EgOs Lack COnfidence And Self-LOve. COnversely,
ThOse With High Self-Esteem Have COnfidence In Their Own Abilities,
KnOw Their ShOrtcOmings And LOve Themselves.
We All Have An EgO. HOwever, We Must Learn HOw To COntrOl It. If YOu
Let YOur EgO Go Unchecked, It Can Cause Tremendous TurmOil In YOur
Life-- Particularly With YOur Partner Or SpOuse. Negative Feelings,
sUCH As Danger, Resentment, Fear And JealOusy Are All PrOducts Of The
EGO.
¤ JEALOUS THOUGHTS•••
When YOur BOyfriend/Girlfriend Is Out With His Friends, DOes YOur Mind
Go Wild With ThOughts AbOut What He/She Is DOing? JealOusy And EgO Can
Be Very Destructive. If YOu Obsess On ThOse ThOughts Running ThrOugh
YOur Mind, By The Time YOur Boyfriend/Girlfriend COmes HOme, YOu Can
COnvince YOurself That He/She Is Cheating On YOu. Of COurse, An
Argument Will Ensue And YOur BOyfriend/Girlfriend Will Be Frustrated
AbOut The AccusatiOns. If The Pattern Repeats, He/She Will BecOme
Resentful And Eventually Want Out Of The RelatiOnship-- All Because Of
A FictitiOus StOry That YOu AllOwed YOur EgO To Create In YOur Head•
¤ HANGING ON•••
Oftentimes A PersOn Will Remain In A Bad RelatiOnship Because His/Her
EgO WOn't AllOw Him/Her To Accept That Her Judgment Of Her Partner's
Character Was WrOng. This Is COmmOn When A PersOn Is Being Cheated On.
The EgO Is Bruised And We Can't Accept That We Are Less Attractive Or
Less Desirable Than Our Partner's Mistress. It Can't Be True That We
Invested Years IntO A RelatiOnship That Isn't WOrking Out. Our EgO
WOn't AllOw Us To Accept It. So, We Hang On To The RelatiOnship To
PrOve That We Are WOrthy To Be In It. In Order To Move On, A PersOn
Needs To Let Go Of His/Her EgO And Free Herself FrOm An Unhealthy
RelatiOnship.
¤ BEING RIGHT•••
FOr The Egotist, Being Right All The Time Is ClOsely AssOciated With
Feeling WOrthy. TherefOre, ThOse WhO Can't Let Go Of Their EgOs Do And
Say ANYTHING They Can To Always Be Right. UnfOrtunately, This Happens
At The Expense Of Everything Else. The Desire To Always Be Right Can
Ruin RelatiOnships With CO-WOrkers, BOsses, Siblings, Relatives And
SpOuses. At SOme POint, YOu Need To Realize That The False Self-WOrth
That YOU Get FrOm Sticking To YOur Guns And "Being Right" DOesn't
Outweigh True Happiness.
¤ FEAR OF REJECTION•••
Whether It's Asking FOr PrOmOtion At WOrk Or Introducing YOurself To A
New Guy At The Gym, Fear Of RejectiOn Can Be What StOps YOu FrOm
Achieving YOur GOals. If YOu Let Go Of YOur EgO And ThOse Fears, YOu
Can Live YOur Life WithOut Limits And Achieve A LOt MOre. To COmbat
The Fear Of RejectiOn, YOu Need To LOve YOurself And KnOw That YOu
Deserve POsitivity In YOur Life. YOu Must Accept That Life Isn't
WithOut Failures, In SOme Scenarios, YOu May Get Rejected 90% Of Time,
But That DOesn't Mean YOu DOn't Have A Chance At Success.
Gaining COntrOl Of YOur EgO Is The Best Thing That YOu Can Do FOr
YOurself. If YOu Can't Put YOur EgO Aside And Let It GO, YOu'll
COntinue To Have Unsuccessful, Destructive And Unhappy RelatiOnships.
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