Passive Attitude TOward Finding A SpOuse, And Even After YOu Do Get
Married It Creates A Passive Attitude In Handling Marital Issues. In
This Day Of 50% DivOrce Rates, A Passive Attitude Is Detrimental To
The RelatiOnship. If Deep DOwn Inside YOu Believe That There Is Such A
Thing As A Perfect SpOuse, YOu're GOing To Set YOur ExpectatiOns So
High, That EveryOne Will DisappOint YOu. YOu Will Always Find SOme
Flaw In The Other PersOn That YOu DOn't Like.
SecOndly, If YOu Believe That GOd Predestined BOth Of YOu To ße
TOgether, Then YOu Are Likely To Believe That The RelatiOnship Will
"JUST WORK OUT", YOu DOn't Have To Do Too Much, GOd Will WOrk It Out.
WRONG! It Is YOUR JOb To Handle The PrOblems That COme Up In A
RelatiOnship. A COuple Must Decide That Whatever COmes Their Way, They
Are Staying TOgether. This Requires An Aggressive And PrO-active
Attitude TOward The RelatiOnship. Please Rid YOur Mind Of This Disease
That It Is GOd's JOb To Handle YOur Marital Business. It's YOurs. 1
Tim 3 HOlds Men RespOnsible When Their Families Go Astray, NOt GOd.
NOw Is GOd TOtally Detached FrOm Our ChOices? NO. GOd Is Very Much
InvOlved In Our Day To Day Lives, Especially ImpOrtant DecisiOns Like
WhO We Marry. But We Need To PrOperly Understand GOd's ROle And Our
ROle. What Exactly DOes It Mean To Sit On Our Butt On HOpe That GOd's
Will Falls Into Our Laps? NO, But That's What So Many PeOple Do. Faith
Is An Active WOrd. Just To Illustrate, HOw Do YOu Trust GOd To Supply
YOur Needs? NOt By HOping MOney Will GrOw On A Tree In YOur FrOnt
Yard, But By Trusting GOd To PrOsper YOur WOrk. Similarly, Marital
Faith Is NOt Trusting GOd To Just Give YOu A SpOuse- That One Day A
Stranger Will KnOck On YOur Door With ROses And A Ring. That's NOt
Faith. That's ROmance NOvel Drivel. Faith Is Trusting That As YOu Go
Looking FOr A SpOuse, Meeting New PeOple E.t.C, That GOd Will Guide
YOu And Help YOu Make Good DecisiOns So YOu Can Find A Good SpOuse.
NOTE That I Didn't Say RIGHT SpOuse. There Is NO Right SpOuse. Every
RelatiOnship Will Have PrOblems And EveryOne Will Have Qualities That
Drive YOu Insane. But YOu Can Find A GOOD SpOuse. There Are Many
PeOple WhO Can Be Good SpOuses. The MOre YOu Meet, The Better YOur
Chances Of Finding A Good One. A Good SpOuse Is SOmeOne With WhOm YOu
Can Have A Happy RelatiOnship And With WhOm YOu Can ResOlve Many Of
The PrOblems That Arise. But Brace YOurself FOr A Really Bumpy ROad.
RelatiOnships Are Hard, Especially FOr PeOple WhO Have KnOwn Only
Singleness All Their Life. RelatiOnship Require A LOT Of WOrk. But The
Happiest Marriages I KnOw Are Between PeOple WhO've Decided That
Whatever COmes Their Way, It Will NOt Seperate Them. These PeOple
DOn't Wait FOr Happiness To Happen To Them. They Make It Happen.
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