TOp ReasOns Married COuples Decide To Split, And Believe It Or NOt,
COmmunicatiOn PrOblems Came Out On Top As The Number One ReasOn
Marriages Fail.
Here Are SOme Other Culprits Our Experts Blame FOr The Alarming Rate Of DivOrce:
#1. GETTING MARRIED FOR THE WRONG REASONS:
Marrying FOr MOney. We've All Heard That That's A Ticket To Quick
DivOrce, And Also Marrying Just Because EveryOne Is Getting Married.
So YOu Jump Straight At Any MAN Or WOman That COmes YOur Way.
#2. LACK OF INDIVIDUAL IDENTITY:
A COdependent RelatiOnship Is MOre Healthy When YOu DOn't Have YOur
Own Interests Or The Opportunity To Express YOurself Outside Of
COupledOm, YOu BecOme "COuple Dumb"
If YOu're NOt COmfOrtable DOing Things With YOur Partner, It COuld
Spell DOOM FOr A DivOrce.
#3. FINANCIAL STRESS:
COmmunicatiOn AbOut MOney Maybe Causing Grief. HOw YOu And YOu SpOuse
Deal With Bills, Debt, Budget And Other MOney Related Issues Can Make
Or Break YOur Marrage. Reaching A COmprOmise With YOur SpOuse In This
Area Can Help Safeguard YOur Marriage.
#4. COmmunicatiOn PrOblems-
If YOu Haven't Figured This One Out Already: Getting Married DOes NOt
SOlve YOur COmmunicatiOn PrOblem, It May Make It WOrse. Because The
Sharing Of InfOrmatiOn Is Crucial To The Success Of YOur RelatiOnship,
The Lack Of It Is AlMoST A Guarantee Of Failure.
#5. FAMILY STRESSORS:
Children, Parents, Siblings And All Other RelatiOns Can Affect The
HOme EnvirOnment. Letting These StressOrs Affect The RelatiOnship Can
DestrOy It.
#6. SEXUAL ISSUES:
SEX Is A Red HOt TOpic And Can Impact A COuples COmpatibility.
Infidelity, Infrequency And The Quality Of Physical Intimacy Are All
Factors TO Be COnsidered. SEXUAL COmpatibility Also Requires
DiscussiOn, Which If Absent In A RelatiOnship Can Lead To PrOblems.
Adultery, Or SEXUAL RelatiOns Outside Of YOur Marriage.
#7. DISCORD REGARDING FRIENDS:
Friends Of One Of The Partners May Not Get AlOng Well With The New
SpOuse. IF The Friend DOes NOt BecOme A POSITIVE Part Of The
RelatiOnship, His Or Her COntinuing Presence May COntribute To The
COllapse Of The Marriage.
#8. EXPECTATIONS:
YOu Have To Have The Ability To Adapt To The Ever-Changing Needs Of A
RelatiOnship. It's AlsO ImpOrtant To NOt Have Unrealistic Ideas AbOut
YOur FUTURE. It's Good To Have Dreams And GOALS, But Placing Demands
Or ExpectatiOns That CannOt Or Will NOt Be Met GrOundwOrk FOr
DisappOintment And DisillusiOnment. If YOu Have ExpectatiOns, YOu
COuld be Setting YOurself Up TO Be Pissed Off.
#9. POOR TIME MANAGEMENT:
Finding Balance In YOur Life Is Often A Lifetime PrOject. Achieving A
Good Balance Between WOrk, HOme And Play Is Difficult But It's
ImpOrtant To The Health Of YOur RelatiOnship.
#10. ADDICTION AND ABUSE:
Any Substance (Drugs, Alcohol) Behavioral (Sex, Co-Dependency) Or
Psychologically Unhealthy FOrM Of Dependence Can Ruin A Marriage. Many
Of These PrOblems Also Cause MOney To be A Critical Issue.
LASTLY, ABUSE Of Any Kind, Be It Physical, Verbal, Sexual, And
EmOtiOnal FOrms Of Abuse Are Well KnOwn Factors That DestrOy
Marriages.
If Any Of These Issues Are Causing PrOblems In YOur Marriage It Maybe
Time To Deal With Them. If, After YOur Best EffOrt, There Is NO Way To
ResOlve YOur PrOblems, DivOrce Is Always An OptiON.
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