To Get Him To COmmit To YOu? Do YOu Feel Ready To Get Engaged Or
Married And Yet YOu're Still Waiting FOr Him To Make A MOve To COmmit
To YOur Future TOgether? If YOu've Been With A Man YOu LOve In An
Exclusive RelatiOnship FOr Over A Year, YOu're In The Perfect POsitiOn
To Help Him Make The DecisiOn TO COmmit To YOu.
HOwever, Many Men Have COnsciOus And SubcOnsciOus Fears That Make Them
Feel Ambivalent AbOut COmmitting To Any WOman•
It's Pretty Much A Given That A MajOrity Of Men Need SOme Kind Of
"PUSH" To Get Them To COmmit. MOst WOmen Find Themselves In This
SituatiOn At SOme POint In Their RelatiOnships. But If YOu KnOw What
Their True COncerns Are, YOu Can Put YOurself In The POsitiOn Of
Calming Their Fears And ShOwing Them That Their WOrries Are Unwanted•
HERE Are 3 Fears That Might Be HOlding Him BACK:
1• HE'S AFRAID YOU ARE GOING TO CHANGE HIM:
This Is When A Man Feels That YOu DOn't Really Accept Him As He Is.
He's Afraid That To Please YOu He Will Have To Change An Essential
Part Of Himself. He DOesn't Want To MOld Himself To Be SOmeOne He's
NOt. To Reassure Him, YOu Have To Accept WhO He Is And ShOw Him That
YOu Have No IntentiOn Of CHANGING HIM•
2• HE'S AFRAID YOU ONLY LOVE HIM FOR WHAT HE CAN DO FOR YOU:
This Is A Man's Equivalent Of Feeling Like "A Piece Of Meat." If YOu
Are Only Interested In Him Because YOu Need A Man On YOur Arm Or
SOmeOne To Spend MOney On YOu, He Will Feel It. He Has To KnOw YOu
LOve Him FOr WhO He Is WithOut All The Extras He Brings To The
RelatiOnship. To Reassure Him, YOu Need To Make Him Feel That YOu're
Interested In Him And NOt In What He Can Do FOr YOu•
3• HE'S AFRAID YOU'RE GOING TO BECOME TOO DEPENDENT ON HIM:
This Can Happen To The Best Of Us When We Fall In LOve. WithOut
Realizing It, YOu Neglect YOur Outside Interests Or StOp Spending Time
With YOur Friends. He Then Feels Pressure To Spend MOre Time YOu; Time
He Might Need FOr His Own Activities And Friendships. To Reassure Him
YOu WOn't BecOme Dependent On Him, He Has To See That YOu Have A Life
Apart FrOm Him, That YOu Can Be Happy And Fulfilled When He's NOt
ArOund•
If YOu Have Tendencies That Relate To Any Of The Three Fears Listed
AbOve, YOu'll Need To WOrk On YOurself So A Man Can Feel Safe And
COmfOrtable With YOu. wHEN YOu BecOme The COnfident And Secure WOman
That Makes Him Feel LOved FOr Himself, He'll KnOw That YOu Are A WOman
He Can Trust. That's When He'll Step Up And Be The Man WhO Is MOre
Than Ready To COmmit To YOU•
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