Be HOnest-Do yOu Ever Blame yOur Past RelatiOnship Failures On yOur
Parents? Do Their RelatiOnship Issues Haunt yOur RelatiOnship Reality?
Oftentimes Wd MirrOr The RelatiOnship BehaviOur We Saw GrOwing Up. If
Our Parents' RelatiOnship Was Healthy, That's A Good Thing.
HOwever, If We View Our Parents' RelatiOnship As DysfunctiOnal, We May
Experience Dating Disasters WithOut RecOgnizing The Parallels•
In Order To Achieve RelatiOnship Success, yOu May First Need To
AcknOwledge The ROle yOur Parents' RelatiOnship Plays In yOur Life. If
yOu've Been Negatively Influenced, yOu Will Need To Break Free Of Any
Familiar DysfunctiOn, Recreate yOur LOVE VOcabulary, And Release Any
Judgement yOu Have TOward yOur Parents Or yOurself. If yOu're Ready To
Create A MOre Satisfying RelatiOnship Future, The FOllOwing FOur Tips
ShOuld Help:
#1• IDENTIFY THE MISTAKES:
First, It's ImpOrtant To Identify The Mistakes yOu Think yOu're
Repeating. FOr Example, If yOur Parents COnstantly Butt Heads Over
Simple Matters, yOu May Find yOurself Being COmbative In yOur
RelatiOnships. Or, If yOur Parents Were Never Very Good At SuppOrting
One AnOther's GOals And Dreams, yOu May Find yOurself Attracted To
POtential Partners WhO COnstantly QuestiOn Or Feel Intimidated By yOur
Own GOals And Dreams. By Identifying The RelatiOnship Patterns yOu
Perpetuate, yOu Take The First Step TOward Breaking Free And Having A
MOre Satisfying RelatiOnship Future•
#2• BREAK FREE FROM YOUR PARENTS' PATTERNS:
Once yOu've Identified The RelatiOnship Patterns yOu DOn't Want To
MirrOr, yOur Next Step Is To Break Free FrOm Them. Start By Making A
List Of The Patterns And Habits yOu're Ready To Relinquish. FOr
Example, yOu May Want To Let Go Of yOur COntrOling Nature Or yOur Need
To Always Be Right In RelatiOnships- Traits yOu Inherited FrOm yOur
Parents' BehaviOur. Once yOu've Made yOur List, Review It And Ask
yOurself WhAT Healthy RelatiOnship Habits yOu Can IntrOduce In Their
Place.
FOr Example, yOu May Embrace The Idea That RelatiOnships Take
COmprOmise And yOu're Open To NegOtiatiOn. Instead Of Insisting That
yOu're Always Right, yOu May Accept The Fact That yOu DOn't Always
Have All The Answers And That It's Perfectly Okay To Be WrOng
SOmetimes•
#3• CREATE A NEW RELATIONSHIP VOCABULARY:
Here's An Incredibly EmpOwering Exercise: Write DOwn Five To Ten WOrds
That Describe What yOu Think AbOut LOVE And RelatiOnships. Start By
Saying, "LOVE IS..." And Then Fill In The Blanks. By Putting yOur
Beliefs On Paper, yOu Can Better See HOw yOu Might Be Having TrOuble
Attracting yOur Perfect Partner. If yOur List Includes WOrds Like
Challenging, Unfulfilling, Difficult, etc,, yOu Next Need To Create A
New VOcabulary FOr yOurself. Start By Once Again Writing "LOVE IS..."
And Then Write DOwn Five To Ten WOrds That Describe The Kind Of
Healthy RelatiOnship yOu Want To Start EnjOying. If yOu Need Help
Getting Started, WOrds Like Available, Happy, Healthy, And Fulfilling
ShOuld Inspire yOu. Practice This Exercise MOrning And Night FOr 30
Days•
By Creating A New LOve VOcabulary And Practicing It Every Day FOr A
MOnth, yOu'll BE Suprised With The Results. yOu May Start Attracting
POtential Partners WhO MirrOr yOur New VOcabulary. If It DOesn't
Happen Overnight, DOn't Give Up, Just Keep Practicing•
#4• DON'T JUDGE YOUR PARENTS' MISTAKES (OR YOURSELF):
As yOu Break Free FrOm yOur Parents' DysfunctiOnal Patterns And Habits
And Re-Create yOur Own Healthy RelatiOnship VOCABULARY, It's ImpOrtant
To Relinquish Any Judgment yOu Have TOward yOur Parents Or yOurself.
The Truth Is, They Did The Best They COuld With The KnOwledge They
Had. yOu, Too, Will Do The BEST yOu Can Do With The Awareness And
KnOwledge yOu POssess. yOur First Step Was To RecOgnize The
RelatiOnship Patterns And Habits yOu Inherited That DOn't WOrk FOr
yOu. By Breaking Free And Celebrating yOur Authentic VisiOn Of LOve,
yOu Increase yOur Chances Of RelatiOnship Success.
NOw That yOu KnOw HOw To AvOid Repeating The Mistakes yOur Parents
Made, yOu Are Free To EnjOy A Healthy And Happy RelatiOnship Future.
When In DOubt, Review The Tips, Practice yOur New LOve VOcabulary, And
Release Any Self-ImpOsed Judgment•
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