Monday 8 April 2013

WHY DOES LOVE LAST FOR SOME, AND NOT OTHERS?

•••Døllår Inc•••™
Unless YOu Are Dating Just FOr Fun- FOr COmpaniOnship, Laughs,
Excitement- Then Chances Are YOu've Asked YOurself The QuestiOn At The
TOp Of This Page.
If YOu Desire An Enduring, Stable, Fulfilling RelatiOnship, YOu Want
To KnOw Exactly What FOrtifies LOve Year After Year•
That's A Critical QuestiOn FOr Singles TOday, Because As We Look At
The SOciety We Live In, We See Clear Evidence That Very Often LOve
DOESN'T LAST. If YOu've Been Deeply Hurt By A Marriage That Ended
Badly - YOur Own, YOur Parents', YOur Friends' - YOu Want To Do
Everything YOu Can To Create COnditiOns FOr Lasting LOve In YOur Next
RelatiOnship. The Good News Is That YOu Can Take Much Of The GuesswOrk
And Wishful Thinking Out Of The Lasting-LOve EquatiOn.
OVERTIME, I've COme To Study ROmantic RelatiOnships/Marriages Up ClOse
And PersOnal. After Examining A LOt Of RelatiOnships, BOth Stable And
Unstable, I Identified Several Key COmpOnents That Make LOve Last. One
Ingredient Stands Out AbOve All The Rest, The Very GLUE That HOlds
TOgether Every LOng-Term, LOving RelatiOnship. It Is -Drum ROll,
Please- "TRUST•"
In Fact, YOu'ue PrObably Heard AbOut The ImpOrtance Of Trust, And
Maybe YOu Too WOuld Rank It At Or Near The TOp Of YOur Own
MOst-Essential List. But The QuestiOn Remains: HOw Exactly Do YOu
Evaluate A PersOn's TrustwOrthiness? HOw Can YOu Accurately Assess If
SOmeOne Can Be Truly Be Trusted? Thankfully, Here Are FIVE SPECIFIC
CRITERIA:
1• HONESTY:
Do NOt Trust SOmeOne WhO Lies To YOu. Too Often We COme Up With
Excuses FOr The Other PersOn. It Was A Misunderstanding. She Had Her
ReasOns. It Wasn't That Bad. It Was Only One Time. Take A Clear-Eyed
Look: Has This POtential LOver Ever Deceived YOu? Have YOu Witnessed
Him Or Her Lying To Others? Do YOu Find YOurself QuestiOning The
Veracity Of What He Or She Says And Then Talking YOurself Out Of YOur
DOubts? If SO, MOVE ON•

2• TRANSPARENCY:

A Partner's Life ShOuld Be An Open Book, WithOut Secrets. Make Sure
This New PersOn Invites YOu To Meet Friends, Family, COlleagues, And
AlsO COnfides In YOu AbOut MajOr Stresses, AmbitiOns, GOals, When YOu
Ask, "Where Have YOu Been?" He Or She ShOuld Answer WithOut
HesitatiOn•

3• ACCOUNTABILITY:

Is There Proof That This POtential Partner Keeps PrOmises? Are YOu
Able To Check The Details Of Significant TransactiOns With Others,
Financial Or Otherwise? Do NOt Trust SOmeOne WhO Remains Vague Or
Unreachable AbOut These Issues. It's Best To Be SuspiciOus Of PeOple
WhO Say "Just Trust Me" In RespOnse To A Specific QuestiOn.
TrustwOrthy PeOple DOn't Feel The Need To Tell YOu What To Think•

4• ETHICAL ACTIONS:

DOes This PersOn Display Just And Fair COnduct With COnsistency? DOes
He Or She Expresses And DemOnstrate Values In Tune With YOur Own? If
YOu're NOt COmfOrtable With SOmeOne's MOrals, Do NOt COntinue The
RelatiOnship•

5• PROOF OF ALLIANCE:

Any POtential Mate ShOuld DemOnstrate Being On YOur Side And Having
YOur Back- Even In Small Ways. YOu Want Evidence That He Or She DOes
NOt Operate Out Of Sheer Self-Interest NOr FOrm COalitiOn Against YOu.
YOu Want To Proof That He Or She Takes YOur Interests To Heart. It Is
A WOnderful Sign If SOmeOne DemOnstrates Selflessness TOward YOu.

If YOu Subject PeOple YOu Meet To This Clear-Eyed Assessment, YOu Will
Gain COnfidence In YOur Ability To Size Up Others And Determine If A
POtential Partner Has The TrustwOrthiness TO MAKE LOVE LAST•

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