Women Are Great At Couching Things. They Are Great At Dishing Out The
Worst Insult, In The Sweetest Way So That The Receiver Barely Knows
Whether To Smack Them Or Thank Them. Most Importantly, They Decide
What To Do And Say Based On What They Want The Overall Outcome To Be.
Women Don't Always Speak From Their Gut, But From Their Heads,
Thinking "How Will This Affect Things In The Long Run?" Men Are A
Little More Reactive. They Aren't As Good At Covering Up The
Expression That Just Swept Across Their Face, Or Coming Up With A
Nicer Way To Say Something. And More Often Than Not, Women Take It The
WRONG WAY:
1• WHAT DOES "I DON'T KNOW" MEAN ANYWAY?
When A Woman Says "I Don't Know" It Often Means "NO I Don't Want To Do
That" "No I Don't Love You" "No I Did Not Orgasm." "NO" Is Too Harsh
For Them, So They Say "I Don't Know" Instead. So When Men Say It, They
Think It's A Game Over. No He Doesn't Love Me. No He Doesn't Want To
Go Do That With Me. No He Didn't Orgasm. But, Usually, When A Man Says
"I Don't Know" He Really Just Doesn't Know, And Doesn't Want To Jump
To Giving An Answer Yet•
2• SILENCE AFTER SWEETNESS:
This Is Similar To The "I Don't Know" Misunderstanding. You Tell Your
Man You Are So Excited To Spend A Whole Two Weeks Alone, Just The Two
Of You, On Vacation. You Tell Your Man You Have Never Loved Someone As
Much As You Love Him. You Tell Him You Feel Like He Fits Into Your
Family Perfectly. And He Says... Nothing. He Smiles :-). And He Nods.
Women Often Read This As Very Cruel- As The Guy Passively Saying That
He Feels The Exact Opposite Way. The Truth Is, He May Just Not Feel
Whole Heartedly The Exact Same Way, And He Knows What A Dumb*ss He
Looks Like When He Tries To Fake Enthusiasm. He Doesn't Feel 100% The
Opposite As You Do, But He Doesn't Feel 100% The Same. So He Says
Nothing• :-/
3• NOT IN THE MOOD:
It's Really Not True That Guys Are Always In The Mood To Have SEX.
But, Because Women Are Told This, Women Often Think That A Guy Is Just
Not Into Them, Or That They Did Something That Put A Guy Off, If He
Doesn't Want To Have SEX. "But I've Had Plenty Of Exes Have Their One
Night Off When They Said They Just Weren't In The Mood, But They Still
Wanted To Cuddle The Hell Out Of Me And Tell Me How Crazy They Were
About Me" You Say! Men's Libidos Dip Sometimes, Just Like Women's.
Doesn't Mean They Are Repulsed By YOU•
4• CRITICIZING YOUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS:
Women Like To Be Supported. They Like Their Men To Have Their Back.
So, Sometimes, In A Misguided Attempt, Your Man Will Make A Snide
Remark About A Friend That You Have Been Complaining About Lately, Or
Even Say Something Critical About Your Mother If The Two Of Yot Have
Been Bumping Heads. He Is Trying To Show He Is On Your Side, But The
Rule Stands The Same For Every Family; "Nobody Makes Fun Of My Family
But Me." So, We Can Get Offended When He Is Just Trying To Be
Supportive•
5• TAKING TIME OUT:
Not Everyone Needs To Hash Things Out In A Fight Right Then And There.
Some People Need Time To Think. Men Will Often Bolt Early On In A
Fight , Saying They Don't Want To Talk About It, Or Need To Be Alone.
And Women Read This As Them Just Not Caring. When Really, Even If They
Seem Pissed Or Indifferent At First, Usually They Go Off And Think
About The Fight And How To Resolve It•
6• NEEDING ALONE TIME:
For Whatever Reason, Men Tend To Need Time Away From The Relationship
More Than Women Do. Be Realistic And Ask Yourself How Often You Hear
Your Female Friends Complaining That Their Boyfriends Don't Call
Enough, Don't Plan Dates FOr Them Enough, And Just Aren't There As
Much As She Wish They Were. Women Are Better At Coupling Up. So, If
You Tell A Guy That You Need "Alone Time" Or "Space," That Is Usually
The Beginning Of The End. If A Guy Says It, He Might Just Need Some
Alone Time, And When He Returns From It, He Will Feel Just As Strongly
About You As He Did Before•
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