Monday 20 May 2013

THINGS YOU NEED TO AGREE ON IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!

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"Everything Is Great, But..." You Or A Friend Has Probably Started A
Sentence About Their Relationship Like That Before. We're All Slight
Perfectionists When It Comes To Relationships. Differences Between A
Partner And Us Stick Out To Us Like A Sore Thumb. But, You Need To
Stop And Ask Yourself, Is Our Difference In Opinion Over This Issue
Worth Ending The Relationship Over? Or Will It Actually Not Affect Our
Ability To Lead A Stable, Happy Relationship? Here Is A List Of Things
You Do, And Don't, Need To Agree On With Your Partner•

THINGS YOU NEED TO AGREE ON-

1• FIDELITY:
Fidelity Means Different Things To Different People. The Majority Of
Couples Will Say That Any Physical Encounter- From As Little As A Kiss
To As Much As Sleeping With Someone- Constitutes Some Sort Of
Cheating. But, Beyond That, It Can Become More Complicated. Has
Someone "CHEATED" If They Hang Out With Someone Of The Opposite Sex
Without Telling You? Or If They Went To A Party Where They Knew Their
Ex Would Be Without Telling You? Is A Kiss Something To Break Up Over?
If You Don't Agree On These Matters, You Could Get Terribly Hurt, Or
At The Very Least Find Yourself Often Arguing Or Feeling Paranoid Any
Time Your Partner Goes Out•
2• HOW MUCH TIME YOU SPEND WITH FRIENDS:
Some Couples Want To Be One Another's Lives. Personally, I Don't Find
This Very Healthy, But If Both People Want To Spend All Their Time
Together, At Least It Won't Cause A Problem Between Them. However, If
One Person Thinks It Completely Normal And Even Necessary To Spend A
Few Nights Apart Every Week, And Do Things With Their Friends Without
Inviting The Significant Other, Meanwhile The Other Thinks A Couple Is
A Couple And Shouldn't Be Seperated, You'll Have A Major Problem•
3• WHAT IS SHARED WITH FRIENDS:
There Are Those Extremely Open And Sexually Liberated Couples That
Will Tell You Every Detail About Their Sex Life Right At A Dinner
Party. If Both People Are That Comfortable Sharing Those Things,
Great. You Also Have The Couples That Don't Mind Fighting In Front Of
People, Letting All Their Dirty Laundry Show. Once Again, If Both Are
Fine With That, So Be It. But, If One Person Thinks That What Happens
In The Bedroom, Or In An Argument, Should Be Highly Confidential, Only
To Discover The Other One Has Been Yammering On To Their Friends About
It, The More Private Person Will Feel Deeply Betrayed And Embarrassed•

4• COMMUNICATION WITH EXES:

Do You Have An Absolutely No Friendship With Any Exes, No Matter How
Long Ago, Policy? Better Hope Your Partner Adheres To The Same Idea.
What About Exes From The Distant Past-Are They Okay To Talk To? What
About Recent Exes Who You Ended Things Amicably With- Can You Still
Talk To Them And Even See Them As A Friend? YoU Need To Agree With
Your Partner On When And In What Capacity It Is Okay To Communicate
With Or See Exes, Or Else Major Jealousy Problems Will Arise•

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