Along With Online Dating, Long-Distance Relationships Have Also Become
Quite Popular In Today's World. Whether You Meet Someone You Like Who
Happens To Live In Another State Or If Your Boyfriend Has To Relocate
Somewhere That Isn't Exactly Close By, Sometimes Long-Distance
Relationships Just Happen. However, Be Warned That LDRs Are Not For
Everyone, And Effort In Order To Make Them Work, Let Alone Last. If
You're Faced Between The Decision Of Being Single Or Being In A LDR,
You'll Want To Think Long And Hard. Here Are Signs That A LOng
Distance Relationship Isn't For You•
1• YOU DON'T LIKE NOT SEEING YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND EVERYDAY:
With Long-Distance Relationships, There Is A Lack Of Physical Touch
That Oftens Gets To A Lot Of People, Especially Women. If You're The
Type Of Man/Woman That Needs To See His/Her Partner Every Single Day,
A LDR Probably Isn't Ideal For You. The Fact Is That With Long
Distance Relationships, You See Each Other When You Can Both Hop On
Skype, Or When One Of You Has Enough Money And Can Take Time To Go
Visit The Other•
2• PHONE CALLS AND TEXTS AREN'T ENOUGH:
Going Along With The Lack Of Physical Touch, In Most LDRs, The Couple
Relies On Daily Phone Calls And Texts To Help Them Get Through The
Days. But, If Hearing His/Her Voice And Reading His/Her Words Doesn't
Cut It For You, Don't Think Twice About Getting Into A Long Distance
Relationship. Simply, Phone Calls And Texts Will Be All You Have
Communication Wise, So If It Still Leaves A Void For You, Don't
Bother•
3• YOU CRAVE PHYSICAL INTIMACY OFTEN:
Sex In A Long-Distance Relationship Isn't Possible, At Least Not Very
Often. While You Can Always Handle The Deed On Your Own, We All Know
That It's Completely Different When You're With A Man And When You're
Doing It By Yourself. If You Crave Physical Intimacy On A Daily Or
Weekly Basis, An LDR Is Going To Be Torture For You. This Is
Especially True If You Can't See Your Man Very Often•
4• YOU HAVE A SUPER BUSY SCHEDULE:
If You Already Have A Jam-Packed Schedule, A Long Distance
Relationship May Not Be Ideal For You. Being Super Busy Is One Thing
When You're Single, But If You're Considering A Long Distance
Relationship, You're Going To Need To Be Able To Set Aside Time,
Preferably A Few Hours During The Week, To Talk To Your Man/Woman. A
Super Busy Schedule Doesn't Allow For The Time Needed To Make A LDR
Work•
5• YOU DON'T HAVE A LOT OF EXTRA MONEY TO SPARE:
At Some Point During A Long-Distance Relationship, You'll Want To Mark
Some Dates When You Two Can Physically See Each Other. Of Course, This
Often Involves Flying Or Traveling By Plane, Or Driving, But In The
End This All Means Money. If You're Already Living Paycheck To
Paycheck And You Don't Have Much Money Left Over, A LDR Definitely
Isn't For You. Traveling Back And Forth To See Your Man Isn't Free Or
Cheap•
6• YOU'RE NOT THE BEST AT COMMUNICATING:
This Goes For All Relationships But Communication Is Especially
Important In Long-Distance Relationships. When Something Is Wrong,
You'll Have To Speak Up About It. Your Man/Woman Isn't Next To You And
He/She Isn't Able To Read Your Body Language Or See Your Expressions.
Open Communication Is Critical In LDRs And If You Struggle With
Expressing How You Feel, You May Want To Avoid LDRs At All Costs•
7• YOU HATE TAKING PICTURES:
Long Distance Relationships Are All About Getting As Close As
Possible. Since You Two Can't See Each Other Very Often, You'll Be
Expected To Send Pictures Back And Forth At Least Every Week, If Not
Daily. If You Stay Far Away From The Camera And Avoid It At All Cost,
You're Going To Have One Sad Man/Woman And One Bad Long-Distance
Relationship. Pictures Will Be One Of Your Best Ways Of Making The
Relationship Semi-Physical•
8• YOU HAVE TRUST ISSUES:
Trust Issues Can Be Problematic In Any Relationship, But They Will
Play A Huge Factor In Long-Distance Relationships. In LDRs You Don't
Have The Ability To Keep Tabs On Your Man/Woman And Instead You Have
To Trust Everything That He Tells You. If You Have Known Trust Issues,
A Long Distance Relationship Is Bound To Only Make Them Worse•
9• YOU LIKE THE WAIT-AND-SEE STANCE:
The Wait And See Stance In A Long Distance Relationship Is A True
No-No. In The Back Of Your Mind You Don't Have A Lot Of Hope Or Trust
That The Relationship Is Going To Work, But You Refuse To End It. If
You're The Type Of Woman That Prefers To Sit On The Fence And Wait
Things Out, An LDR Isn't Ideal For You. Sitting On The Fence And
Waiting Doesn't Equate To Being Involved Or Committed To The
Relationship•
10• YOU ARE A PESSIMIST:
Pessimists Never Do Well In Any Type Of Relationship, LDRs Especially.
In Long-Distance Relationships, You Have To Have A Lot Of Faith That
The Relationship Is Actually Worth Something And That In Time, It Will
Pan Out To Be Something More. If You Prefer To Live A Life Of
Negativity, Do So Without Dragging Others Into It•
11• YOU ARE A JEALOUS PERSON:
In Any Relationship, Jealousy Never Pans Out To Be A Good Thing, But
The Problem Becomes Even Worse In Long-Distance Relationships. If
You're A Jealous Person, You May Want To Avoid LDRs, Simply Because
The Relationship Will Be Made Even Harder And Even More Stressful. If
Your Man/Woman Has Friends Of The Opposite Sex Whom He/She Hangs Out
With On Occasion, Its Likely That Your Jealousy Will Flare Up And A
Huge Argument Will Take Place. Jealousy Along With Lack Of Trust Will
Ruin Any Chances Of A Successful LDR•
12• YOU DON'T HAVE A CONSISTENT SCHEDULE:
With Long-Distance Relationships, You Two Will Want To Be Able To
Schedule Days And Times That You Can Spend Time Together Either Online
Or On Phone. If Your Schedule Is Consistently Changing Or If You Don't
Have A Clear Idea Of What Days Or Times You'll Be Free, A Long
Distance Relationship Isn't Going To Go Very Far. It May Be Wisest To
Just Avoid Them•
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