Friday 7 June 2013

REASONS WHY WOMEN OVERLOOK "NICE GUYS"

When Picking Between A "Bad Guy" Or "Nice Guy," Oftentimes The "Bad
Guy" Wins The Fight, But Why? It's Not So Much That "Nice" Isn't Good,
But For Women I Think Being Good And Attractive Are Two Different
Things•
Check Out These Reasons Why Women End Up With Bad Boys Instead Of Nice Guys•••
1• WOMEN DON'T BELIEVE IN "NICE GUYS"
If Guys Are "Too" Nice, Women Typically Won't Trust Them Because They
Seem Like They're Faking It. Women Are Used To Seeing Bad
Relationships In Their Personal Lives, Favourite TV Shows, Hit Movies,
And All Media Outlets. This Has Conditioned Some Women To Think The
Worst Will Happen In Their Relationship Too.
2• WOMEN DON'T RESPECT THEM:
Nice Guys Will Typically Drop Anything For Their Girlfriend And Be
Very Attentive To Her Needs. Yes, This A Great Attribute But If Women
Control Their Men Too Much, They Tend To Lose Respect For Them. If
Women Know They Can Control Everything Men Do They Will Inherently
Stop Respecting Them Which Leads To Lack Of Attraction•
3• IT'S ALL ABOUT MOTHER NATURE:
Women Are Designed To Nurture. However, Instead Of Doing This With
Children, They Often End Up Doing It With Bad Boys. They Think Their
Love Will Save Them. Nice Guys Rarely Need To Be Saved And Therefore
Women Can Get Bored And Look For Someone Who Really Needs Some
Nurturing•

4• A FEAR OF INTIMACY/COMMITMENT:

Yes, Some Women Have It Too, And Nice Guys Tend To Want A Commitment
At Some Point. But If A Woman's Afraid Of Intimacy, She'll Tend To Go
For A Guy She Doesn't See Herself Marrying Which Ends Up Being A "Bad
Guy" More Often Than A Good One. A Good Guy Might Remind Her Of
Settling Down And Committing To A Relationship, Which Might Scare Her
And Keep Her Dating The Bad Boys•

5• LOW SELF-ESTEEM:

Women Typically Don't Feel Comfortable With People Who Treat Them
Better Than They Treat Themselves. If You Don't Think Much Of
Yourself, The Bad Boy Is Simply Reinforcing Your Negative Belief. A
Nice Guy Is Treating You In A Way You're Not Familiar With. Haven't
You Noticed That Women Stuck In Bad Relationships Tend To Have Low
Self-Esteem Themselves? This Only Grows Overtime With Enough Criticism
From Their Unhealthy Relationships And Can Become A SAD Cycle•

6• BEEN THERE, DONE THAT:

Many Women Don't Like "Nice Guys" Because They Have Already Dated Them
And Realized They Need Someone With More Of A Backbone. Every Person
In Completely Different And Everyone Looks For Different Attributes In
Their Partner. If A Woman Needs A Strong Man Who Makes Decisions And
Is Very Action-Oriented, She Might Be More Likely To Find A "Bad Boy"
Who Is More Agressive In His Life. With Everything This Is Not Black
And White. The Key Is To Find A Man In The "Gray" Area, With Just
Enough Backbone To Be The Man, But Enough Compassion To Send You
Flowers And Be Proud Of You In Public•

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