THE PSYCHOLOGY OF MEN AND RELATIONSHIP!!!

Relationships can be complicated. This is because
men and women often have
have a difficult time understanding each other.
However, the key to a successful relationship is to
continually work at it. There
are several issues that men
may come across when dealing
with relationships. Although men are often more inclined to ignore
issues that arise in their
relationships, it is important for
men to make an effort to deal
with them.

1. Committment When it comes To Relationships:

one of the biggest problems
for some men is entering into one. When dating a woman who begins to
display signs
that she wants a commitment, some men get nervous and want to leave. Men often
view being in a committed relationships as a threat to their freedom.
Age may also
play a role in commitment issues with men. Younger men who are not yet ready to
settle down are generally more wary of entering into a
committed relationship, whereas older men who have more dating experience may be
more willing to settle down and commit to one person.

2. Physical Intimacy:

For men, physical intimacy is one of the most important
elements in a relationship. In contrast to women who are more verbal
by nature, men tend to be more physical beings. They are more inclined
to express their feelings
about their partner in a relationship through intimate physical
contact rather than
through words Disagreements over physical intimacy is a common problem
for men in relationships. These problems may develop when a woman
feels that the man is overly concerned with physical intimacy or when
a man feels
deprived of physical intimacy. Therefore, it is very important for
couples to address any problems that they have with physical intimacy.

3. Emotional Intimacy:

It is stereotypically assumed that men are supposed to be strong and
should not show
their emotions. In a relationship, however, it is not always healthy
for a man to conceal his feelings. It is natural
for the stresses of everyday life to make men feel angry, frustrated
or melancholy at times, but remaining
emotionally disconnected and trying to be tough on the outside may
cause some men to eventually take their frustrations out in
inappropriate ways. Although it can be difficult for some men to open
up to women, emotional intimacy is very
important in a relationship.

4. Responsibility:

Responsibility will often become an issue for men at some point in
their relationship. Men
who enjoyed the freedom of being single may have a difficult
time getting used to the responsibilities that come with being in a
relationship. A man who was accustomed to going and coming as he
pleased may become irritated at having to
check in with his girlfriend. Responsibility can be an even bigger
issue for couples who
live together. Men who previously lived alone and moved in with a
girlfriend may struggle with remembering to doing household chores.
When a man begins to feel weighed down by responsibility, conflict
may develop in the relationship. Most men however, can handle
responsibility as long as
they receive an occasional break. That is why in a relationship, it is
important for men to spend time with their friends so that they can
relax and unwind.

5. Relationship Type While some men tend to run from relationships,
there are many men who consider themselves to be "the relationship
type." These men are not interested in playing the field but are more
comfortable being in
fulfilling, long-term relationships. Men who are "the relationship
type" are not scared away by the thought of commitment,
responsibility or emotional intimacy. They are looking for a
woman who is attractive,
independent, fun, and has a good sense of humor. However, these men
often feel that a good woman is hard to
find in the same way that women feel that a good man is hard to find.
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