ARE YOU TOO EASILY SEDUCED???

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If YOu've Ever GOne To The GrOcery Store On An Empty StOmach, YOu KnOw
HOw Quickly A ShOrt Shopping List Of Essential Items Can Turn IntO A
Cart Full Of JUNK YOu Didn't Need And WOuldn't Ordinarily Buy. The
Fact Is, Shopping Hungry Is A Great Way To Spend MOre MOney Than
Intended On Food That Is PrObably Bad FOr YOu.
The Same COuld Be Said FOr Dating, When It Has Been A LOng Time Since
YOu Last EnjOyed A LOving RelatiOnship. If YOu Are Starved FOr
PassiOn, Intimacy, And AffectiOn, EveryOne YOu Meet Begins To Look
Pretty Good. SOme Of ThOse POtential Partners May Very Well Be Good
PrOspects FOr YOu; Others NOt SO MUCH. The Key Is To Keep A Level Head
While YOu SOrt Them Out.
To Do That, It Helps To Be Aware Of The Ways In Which Overeagerness
Can WOrk Against YOu-And To Be On YOur Guard.
Here Are FOUR COmmOn Signs YOu Maybe Too Easily Seduced FOr YOur Own Good:
1• YOU ARE QUICK TO OVERLOOK GLARING SIGNS OF INCOMPATIBILITY:
When YOu Want SOmething Very Much, It Is Only Human Nature To
RatiOnalize Away The Apparent ReasOns Why YOu Can't Or ShOuldn't Have
It. FOr Instance, In This State Of Mind, YOu Might COnvince YOurself
That An Argument AbOut POlitics Is A Healthy Sign Of Diversity And
Inclusiveness In The RelatiOnship- Rather Than Evidence That YOu And
YOur POtential Partner Do NOt Share COmmOn VALUES. Widely Differing
Tastes In Music, MOvies, Friends, Or HOw To Spend An Afternoon Off May
Look Trivial At First, Especially To SOmeOne WhO Is Desperate FOr
COmpaniOnship Of Any Kind. In Fact, These Are ImpOrtant Litmus Tests
Of COmpatibility That Must Be Weighed Carefully BefOre YOu MOve Deeper
IntO A LOng-Term Partnership. To Be Sure YOu Are Thinking ClEARLY, Try
Making A List Of The PrOs And COns Of Each New RelatiOnship. Seeing It
In Writing Can Override The Tendency To Sugarcoat The ObviOus•
2• YOU IGNORE THE OPINION OF FRIENDS AND FAMILY:
Granted, YOur Dating DecisiOns Are NOt Subject To The ApprOval Of A
COmmittee. Nevertheless, YOur ClOsest Relatives And Friends Often See
Early Signs Of TrOuble In A New RelatiOnship When YOu Can't- Or DOn't
Want To. They Care AbOut YOur Well-Being And Will NOtice When SOmeOne
New Has A Negative Effect On YOu. If YOu Find YOurself Frequently
Defending YOur New ROmance To PeOple WhOse Advice YOu Ordinarily
Trust, Pay AttentiOn! They May Be Telling YOu That YOur Desire FOr
LOve At Any COst Is Clouding YOur Judgment•

3• YOU MAKE UNHEALTHY COMPROMISES FOR THE SAKE OF THE RELATIONSHIP:

One ReasOn Dating Is So Exciting Is That It Draws YOu Out Of YOur
ROutine And IntO New Adventures. But When A Fledgling RelatiOnship
Begins To Reset YOur PersOnal Standards Of RespOnsible Or Safe
BehaviOr, YOu Are PrObably Giving Up MOre Than YOu Are Getting In
Return- A Clear Sign The Partnership Is NOt Right FOr YOu.
Here Are Several COmmon Examples: Spending MOre MOney Than YOu Can
AffOrd; "Partying" MOre Than Ever; Rushing IntO Physical Intimacy
Sooner Than YOu'd Like; Or Neglecting Other ObligatiOns And
RelatiOnships. The Right Partner Will Bring Out The VERY BEST In YOu.
If The OppOsite Seems True, The COst Of YOur Eagerness FOr ROmance Is
Too High•

4• YOU LINGER LONGER THAN YOU SHOULD IN A DEAD-END SITUATION:

In Any Unhealthy RelatiOnship, There COmes A Time When The Signs Of
DysfunctiOn Are No LOnger So Subtle. Easy-To-Overlook Evidence Of
IncOmpatibility Can Turn IntO UncOncealed DiscOrd, Perhaps Even Abuse.
Often It Is Simply The Fear Of GOing Back To Being Single That Causes
Us To Endure EmOtiOnal Hardship LOng Past The POint When ReasOnable
Self-PreservatiOn Dictates We MOVE ON. DOn't Let YOur LOnging FOr LOve
BecOme A RatiOnale FOr PrOLOnged Mistreatment Of Any Kind•

There Is NOthing WrOng With Being Eager FOr Intimacy And AffectiOn-It
Is The Natural State Of SOmeOne Ready FOr Lasting ROmance. Just DOn't
FOrget To LOve And PrOtect YOurself Well On The Way To Finding A GREAT
PARTNER•

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