If YOu're COnvinced YOu're A Jerk-Magnet, Think Again. It Can Be Easy
To COme To That COnclusiOn If YOu've Repeatedly FOund YOurself In
Dead-End RelatiOnships With Men WhO Are All WrOng FOr YOu. Yet There
Are ReasOns YOu Keep Finding YOurself There, And ThOse ReasOns Can Be
Addressed And Eliminated•
Here Are SIX COmmOn Dynamics That May Be Keeping YOu Stuck In The Rut
Of RelatiOnships With The WRONG GUYS:
1• YOU DON'T THINK THERE ARE ANY GOOD MEN LEFT:
If YOu DOn't Believe There Are Any "RIGHT" Men Out There, Settling FOr
The WrOng One May Feel Like YOur Only OptiOn. Taking An HOnest Look At
What YOu Believe AbOut MEN In General May Be A GREAT First Step TOward
Interrupting A Frustrating Pattern•
2• YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR CRITERIA FOR THE RIGHT MAN:
If YOu Have Never Taken The Time To Visualize In GREAT Detail The
Right Man FOr YOu, RecOgnizing Him In Real Life Is GOing To Be A
Challenge. What Are His PersOnality Traits? Can YOu Describe His
Values And Beliefs? What Are YOur Must-Haves In Order To COnsider
SOmeOne FOr Dating Or Marriage? KnOwing YOur Criteria FOr The Right
Man FOr YOu Begins With KnOwing YOurself. If YOu DOn't Understand
YOurself Well EnOugh To Understand What YOu Need In A Partner, YOu're
In Far Greater Danger Of WelcOming The Advances Of Men WhO Are All
WRONG FOr YOu•
3• EVEN WHEN YOu REALIZE YOU'RE WITH "MR. WRONG," YOU'RE NOT SURE HOW
TO END THE RELATIONSHIP:
SOme WOmen Are IntentiOnal AbOut Recognizing The WrOng MAN, Getting
Out, And MOving On. Others Tend To Hang In There With A Guy Far LOnger
Than Is Wise Or Healthy. It's POssible That YOu're Staying Too LOng In
The WRONG RelatiOnship Because YOu're NOt Sure HOw To End It. FOr
Starterr, Realize YOu DOn't Need YOur Partner's COnsent Or
PermissiOn-Respect YOurself EnOugh To Understand That YOur
DissatisfactiOn AlOne Warrants The Breakup. Decide What YOu Need To
Say Or Do To Exit GRACEFULLY•
4• YOU DON'T WANT TO BE ALONE:
SOmetimes WOmen Attract And Settle FOr A String Of "MR WRONGS" Because
They Jump Too Quickly IntO The Next RelatiOnship. . . And The Next. .
. And The Next. Being Okay With "GOing Solo" After A Breakup Gives YOu
The Time To Evaluate YOur Past RelatiOnship, HOne YOur Understanding
Of YOurself, Heal FrOm Heartache, And Appreciate The WhOleness And
Beauty Of YOur Life With Or WithOut A Partner In It. In Other WOrds,
Being Okay With Being Single AllOws YOu To Choose To Be With SOmeOne
Because He Meets Carefully ChOsen Criteria That Fit YOur Unique Wants
And Needs . . . Rather Than Being Mindlessly Driven To Accept SOmeOne
New Because He's The First Guy WhO Asked YOu Out After YOur Last
Breakup•
5• YOU BELIEVE IT'S POSSIBLE TO TURN A WRONG MAN INTO THE RIGHT MAN:
Maybe YOu Have A Saviour COmplex. Maybe YOu're CO-dependent And Need
SOmeOne To "FIX." Or Maybe YOu're Just Optimistic. While It's Always
POssible FOr SOmeOne To Change IntO SOmeOne Nicer Or Healthier, It's
NOt Very Probable, Especially If YOur BOyfriend Isn't Even The One
LOnging FOr CHANGE. Trying To CHANGE Mr. WRONG IntO Mr. RIGHT Is A
Recipe FOr FrustratiOn•
6• YOU ARE ATTRACTING BECAUSE YOU ARE ATTRACTED:
Is There SOmething AbOut The "WRONG" Men That YOu Find Initially
Attractive? YOu May Be Attracted To The Same WrOng Type Over And Over
Because YOu're SubcOnciously Trying To "FIX" A Past Failed
RelatiOnship, Or Because YOur Father Had SOme Of ThOse
Characteristics.
Here's An Idea: IgnOre YOur Default AttractiOn Settings And Try
SOmething New. If SOmeOne YOu're NOt Initially Attracted To Asks YOu
Out, DOn't Immediately Say NO. Think AbOut This New Kind Of Guy In A
Light Of YOur Criteria, Or BOrrow The Judgment Of A Trusted Friend.
Trying SOmething New Is A GREAT Way To Interrupt A Pattern That Isn't
WOrking FOr YOU.
If YOu've Been Attracting The WrOng Guys, Take HEART: There Are PLENTY
Of "RIGHT" Men Available. By Making Sure YOu Have The Right Attitude
And The Right Perspective, YOu May Soon Find YOurself With The Right
Guy In LOVE With YOU•
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