Some Say That Things Just "Get To Us" More Than They Get To Men. That
We Overanalyze Things. That We Let Things Affect Our Day (Or Our
Lives) More Than Men Do. But, Don't Be Fooled: Men Have Their Weak
Spots Too. Their Achilles Heel. And, If You Say Any Of These Things
They'll Be Thinking About It For A While. Communication In A
Relationship Is Very Important As I'M Sure You Already Know, So Be
Careful How You Come At Him With The Following:
1• YOU'RE NOT MEETING YOUR POTENTIAL:
If In Any Way You Insinuate That Your Boyfriend Could Have A Better
Job, Be A Better Person, Is Slacking Off, Or That You're Less Than
Impressed By His Career- That Will Crush Him. It Will Make Him Feel
Like Less Than A Man. Its One Thing To Want Him To Be Happy And
Encourage Him To Pursue His Passions. It's Another To Make Snide
Remarks About How He Should Be Doing Better, Especially If It's More
About Making You Happy Than Him•
2• "HE CAN'T DO THAT BECAUSE WE'RE GOING TO--"
If A Friend Asks Your Boyfriend To Go To A Game With Him, A Bar With
Him, On A Trip With Him- Anything, aND You Jump In, Maybe Put Your
Hand Protectively On Your Boyfriend's Shoulder And Say "He Can't,
We're Going To My Parent's Home That Weekend," Or "We're Couch
Shopping That Weekend," I'm Pretty Sure You're Going To Embarrass Him.
He Isn't Necessarily Embarrassed To Do Those Things With You, But He
Is Embarrassed That You Answer For Him Because That Makes Him Look
Whipped. It Makes It Look Like You Made Him Do Those Things, Rather
Than He Chose To, And That You Can And Do Speak For Him•
3• "SO AND SO IS SUCH A GOOD GUY"
Maybe You Really Do Admire Your Best Friend's Boyfriend. He Does Super
Sweet Things For Her. Maybe He Does A Lot Of Volunteer Work Or Takes
Care Of His Sick Mother. Or Maybe He Just Takes Her Out A Lot And Buys
Her Things Often. Whatever It May Be, Don't Go Ga-Ga About That In
Front Of Your Boyfriend. Maybe You Don't Mean To Compare Them, But
Your Man Will Feel Like You're Trying To Compare Him To Another Man•
4• WEARING GIFTS FROM AN EX
This Isn't Something You Say, Rather, You Do It Of Course. But It
Makes NO Sense To A Current Boyfriend Why You Would Wear Or Have Gifts
From An Ex. Maybe You Keep Some Gifts From An Ex Who You're Still On
Good Terms With And Were Very Meaningful To You, But, Don't Sport The
Designer Bag Or Bracelet An Ex Got You. That Says To Your Boyfriend
That You Felt The Ex Was Better At Taking Care Of You- And Making You
Feel Special-Than He Is. Same Goes For Any Old Sweaters Of His That
You Used To Sleep In. Get Some Real Pajamas!
5• YOU'VE GAINED WEIGHT:
Women Think Men DOn't Care About These Things. They Think Men Don't
Give A Shyte If They've Put On Weight. Nuh-uh. Men Want You To Find
Them Attractive Just Like You Want Them To Find You Attractive! They
Don't Think It's Very Manly To Be Openly Upset About Weight Gain, But
If You Bring It Up, They Will Be Inwardly Upset Or Worried About It.
How About Encouraging Him To Work Out With You? Find Fun Ways To Get
Fit Together, Ladies! But Don't Poke His Belly One Day, Giggle,
Mention That "You Got Big," And Make The Joke That, "Somebody's Eating
For Two!" Don't Be That Way•
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1 comments:
Oh! Wat about d mst painful things a Man can say 2 a Woman?
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