LEGITIMATE REASONS WHY HE HASN'T PROPOSED!!!

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You And Your Guy Love Each Other. You've Been Dating For Two Years Or
More. You Live Together And Split The Bills- All Of Them. His Parents
Love You And Vice Versa. You Have A Dog Together And Everything Is
Basically His And Hers, Yet The Ring Still Hasn't Come. Based On The
Way Your Relationship Has Been Progressing, It's Clear That The Next
Logical Step Would Be A Proposal, But It Just Hasn't Happened And
You're Starting To Get Confused. Don't Worry Just Yet. Here Are Some
Reasons For Why He Hasn't Proposed To YOU•
1• HE DOESN'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY:
Engagement Rings Aren't Cheap To Say The Least. If You're A Girl
Looking To Have A Big Rock On Your Finger, Money May Be The Main Issue
Here. It's Not Easy To Throw Down A Few Thousands On A Ring Without
Taking A Huge Hit To The Bank Account•
2• HE WANTS TO FOCUS ON HIS CAREER:
Just Like Women Put A Lot Of Focus And Time Into The Relationship, Men
Tend To Put The Same Amount Of Effort Into Their Career. Unless He Has
A Solid Spot In The Workplace And Has Made A Name For Himself, He May
Be Less Inclined To Propose To You. Men Like Having All Of Their Ducks
In A Row Before Asking Questions•
3• HE THINKS GETTING MARRIED WILL MAKE YOU BECOME SOMEONE DIFFERENT:
Guys Hear All Sorts Of Horror Stories About How Women Change Once They
Get Married. You Start Focusing On Different Things. Your Views On
Life Change. The Idea Of You Changing Into Someone Completely
Different Is A Scary Thought. Sometimes This Is Enough To Make Him
Second Guess A Proposal•
4• HE'S UNSURE ABOUT PARENTHOOD:
Since Proposals Mean Weddings And Weddings Often Mean Children Soon
After, Your Guy May Not Be Ready To Be A Dad Just Yet. And Since A
Proposal Starts The Whole Chain Of Events, This Could Be Why He Hasn't
Proposed Yet. Some Men Don't Want To Make A Lifelong Commitment To
Being With Someone If They Aren't Sure Of Their Stance On Parenthood•
5• MARRIAGE SEEMS BORING TO HIM:
We All Love The Feelings That Come With A New Relationship. There's
All Sorts Of Excitement And Anxiety During The Honeymoon Phase That
Some Men Don't Want It To End. Some Guys Have A Fear Of Getting Bored,
And Knowing That He'll Have To Deal With You For Decades To Come May
Create Feelings Of Boredom And Monotony•
6• HIS PARENTS' MARRIAGE DIDN'T LAST:
Divorce Has A Lasting Toll On Everyone Who Is Affected By It. Seeing A
Marriage Fail At Any Age Can Definitely Leave A Bad Memory In The Back
Of Anyone's Mind. If Your Man's Parents Divorced, The Idea Of Marriage
Altogether May Worry Him And It Can Easily Bring Back Old Memories.
The Past Can Easily Hold Him Back From Popping The Question•
7• HE'S AFRAID HE'LL HAVE TO LET GO OF HIS DREAMS:
A Lot Of Men Think That Getting Married Definitely Means That Their
Dreams Go Out The Window. They Have No More Time For Themselves. Your
Guy May Still Have Aspirations That He Wants To Accomplish Before
Putting A Ring On It•
8• HE'S NOT A BIG FAN OF WEDDINGS:
After Any Proposal A Wedding Is Sure To Follow, And While Women Love
The Thought Of A Wedding, Many Men Do Not. For Some Guys, A Wedding
Can Be A Complete Turn Off As The Thought Of You TurniNG Into A
Bridezilla Is Enough For Him To Hold Off On The Proposal. Let's Face
It, Weddings Are Really For The Bride•
9• HE'S AFRAID OF EVEN MORE COMMITMENT:
We All Know That Plenty Of Guys Out There Have A Fear Of Commitment.
Even Though He Clearly Has Enough Commitment To Be Your Boyfriend,
Becoming Your Fiancee And Then Your Husband Is A Whole New Level Of
Dedication. To Put It Simply, A Proposal Sets Forth A Huge
Undertaking, And Your Guy May Just Not Be On That Level Of Commitment•
10• HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO ASK YOU:
From The Outside, A Proposal Is Quite Simple: He Buys The Ring You
Like And Asks The Question, Right? In A Guy's Mind, The Proposal Has
To Be Special, Unique, And One That Is Bound To Make You Cry. Some
Guys Are Completely Clueless On How To Propose To His Girl Without
Seeming Overly Obvious Or Cliche. Give Him Time To Plan A Proposal
That'll Wow You•
11• HE DOESN'T THINK YOU ARE READY:
Though Some Guys Assume It, Your Man May Not Think That You're Ready
Yet, Though He Of Course Doesn't Have Much To Say In The Matter. Maybe
He Thinks You're Too Busy With School Or Your Career To Even Consider
A Proposal. An Easy Remedy To This Is To Have A Talk And Decide On A
Timeline That Will Work Best For Both Of YOU•

12• HE'S NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE:

Maybe His Job Doesn't Pay A Lot, He Just Started Working, Or He Has
Some Debt To Pay Off. Whatever It Is, At The Moment, Your Guy May Not
Be As Financially Secure As He Wants To Be. Men Want To Have Plenty Of
Savings And A Good Flow Of Cash Before Proposing. When He's
Financially Stable, He Knows That You, aND The Relationship, Will Be
Stable As Well, Especially When It Comes To Money•

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