Monday 1 July 2013

THOUGHTS THAT SHOULD NEVER BE SHARED WITH YOUR MAN!!!

EVEN IF YOU ARE THINKING IT, DON'T SAY IT! THOUGHTS THAT SHOULD NEVER
BE SHARED WITH YOUR MAN•

<@>Gr8tmindz Inc<@>™
There Are Two Kinds Of Omissions Of The Truth: The Kind Where You
Leave Information Out So That You Don't Get In Trouble For Something
You've Done Wrong, And The Kind Where You Leave Information Out
Because It Serves No Purpose But To Hurt Your Partner- It Doesn't
Bring To Light Anything That Can Or Needs To Be Fixed, It Doesn't
Improve Your Relationship, And It Simply Doesn't Need To Be Said, Here
Are Some Of Those Types Of Truths•
1• WHAT REALLY WORKED ABOUT YOU AND YOUR EX:
Of Course There Were Things That Worked About You And Your Ex. That's
Why You Were Together For As Long As You Were. And While You Can Go
Into A Starry- Eyed, Nostalgic Rant To Your Best Friend About The
Particular Dynamic You Loved Between You And Your Ex, Going Into Such
A Rant In Front Of Your Current Partner Will Only Instill Deep
Jealousy. He Isn't Sitting There Taking Notes On What He Should Do.
He's Just Fuming Inside•
2• "WELL AT LEAST MY EX WOULD-!"
And When It Comes To The Ex, No Comparisons, Please! If Your Partner
Doesn't Take You Out Enough, Or Cuddle You Enough, Or Talk To Your
Friends Enough, Do Not Say, "Well At Least My Ex Would Do That!" What
Purpose Does That Serve Other Than To Hit Your Partner Where It Hurts?
Do You Need Or Want Your Partner To Take You Out More/Cuddle You/Talk
To Your Friends Because Your Ex Did So? No. That's Just A Basic Need
Of Yours. That's All You Need To Say. You Don't Need To Tell Your
Partner How He Compares To Someone Else. All He Needs To Know Is How
He Is Falling Short Of Your Needs•
3• "I FORGOT TO TAKE THE PILL"
Women Do Not Realize Just How Much Anxiety This Little String Of Words
Gives A Man. It's All He Will Think About Until You're Confirmed
Pregnant Or Not Pregnant. He Will Do Terribly At His Job Until Then,
Be Distant Around His Friends And Probably Be So Distracted He's At
Risk Of Getting In A Car Accident. Take The Morning After Pill, Or
That Pregnancy Test, And Don't Make Him Nervous Unless You Have To•
4• "I THINK YOU COULD BE TRYING HARDER"
At His Job/Career/Aspirations. A Person's Road To Their Dreams Is A
Long And Windy One, Full Of Turns And Bumps That Only Him Understands.
Be Supportive And Encouraging, But Do Not Ever Question The Effort
Your Man Is Putting Into His Dreams. He Could Be Experiencing A Slight
Bout Of Depression, Or Perhaps He Is Trying As Hard As He Possibly
Can! This Is His Path. Let Him Walk It The Way He Will•

5• "YOU'RE NOT VERY GOOD AT WHAT YOU DO"

So Your Partner Is Constantly Coming Up With Business Ideas That You
Think Are Doomed To Fail, Or He Is An Aspiring Actor Who You Think Is
Terrible. But Guess What? That's His Passion. That's What Makes Him
Want To Get Out Of Bed In The MOrning. It's What Makes Him Happy To Be
Alive. And That Is All That Should Matter To You. You Should Love What
He Does, Because He Loves It•

6• "I DON'T LIKE YOUR PARENTS"

Maybe You Can't Stand His Parents. Maybe They Have Even Been Rude To
You. Unfortunately, You're Not Allowed To Tell Your Partner You Do Not
Like The People Who Raised Him, And Who He Loves Unconditionally. Did
You Catch That Last Part?
Unconditionally. No Matter What Case You Make Against Them, He Will
Still Love Them. And Then It Will Be Awkward For Him Knowing You
Dislike Them. It Can Often Be Awkward Enough That He Will Break Up
With You•

7• "YOUR ADVICE DOESN'T HELP ME"

Your Partner Always Chimes In On What He Thinks You Should Do About
Your Career, Your Arguments With Your Friends E.t.c. And His Advice Is
Never Very Spot On. Maybe He Isn't Educated Enough About The Issue. So
What? It Gives Him Joy To Feel He Might Be Helping You. It Doesn't
Harm You To Listen. And It Does Harm Him To Hear He's Not Helping You•

8• "I DON'T LIKE YOUR FRIEND"

Similar To Your Guy's Parents, You Can't Flat Out Say, "I Don't Like
Your Friend." If Your Guy Is A Real Man With Integrity (Which
Hopefully, He Is) He Isn't Going To Drop A Long-Time Friend All
Because His Girlfriend Wants Him To. Now, He Just Has To Live With The
Discomfort Of Knowing You Can't Stand The Guy Who He Is Still Going To
Invite Over, Anyways. Just Find Something Else To Do When That Friend
Comes Over, And Keep Quiet•

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