SOME Couples You Would Be Devastated To See Seperated. They Are Two
Peas In A Pod. You Know They Care About One Another. Others You
Question Constantly. "Why Are They Still Together?" As They Constantly
Argue And Rarely Just Have A Moment Of Peace. What Makes The
Difference? Some People Know How To Work Things Out, While Others Just
Don't Know When To Walk Away. Here's How You Can Know When It's Time
To Walk Away:
1• IT IS NEVER ADDRESSED:
Some Couples Never Actually Fix AN Issue. They Get In A Blow Up Fight.
They Go To Their Seperate Corners And Later Crawl Into Bed, Say, "I
LOVE YOU" And That's It. It's Cute, For A Moment. But They Don't
Actually Plainly State, "Here Is What We Are Going To Do To Avoid This
Issue In The Future."
This Is A Sign Of Major Communication Issues. It Is Delusional To
Think That Time Makes A Problem Go Away. Problem Solvimg Makes It Go
Away. If Your Partner Is Incapable Of Tackling An Issue, You May Have
To Leave That One. Because As Life Goes On, Issues Only Get Bigger.
And Seperate Corners Won't Be An Option•
2• HE/SHE NEVER TAKES BLAME:
It Is Impossible To Be With Someone Who Is Incapable Of Even
Considering That Maybe They COULD Be Wrong Sometimes. It Is Actually
Disrespectful To You Because They Are Choosing Their Own Pride Over
Your Feelings. Even Though They May Sometimes Know They've Done
Something Wrong, They Would Rather Let You Feel Like You Are
Over-Reacting, Or That You Are The One In The Wrong, Than Ever Swallow
Their Pride And Take Blame. A Life With This Person Is A Life Of
Inequality•
3• HE IS A LEAVER:
Some Men Know Just How To Punish A Woman And That Is By Leaving. Some
Men, The Instant A Woman Brings Up Any Issue At All, Say, "I Don't
Want To Fight. I'm Leaving" And Go Off To See Their Friends, To A Bar,
To Their Parents, To god Knows Where For god Knows How Long. This Type
Of Man Makes You Feel You Can Never Bring Up Anything- You Can Never
Share With Him When You Are Upset Because You Are Punished By Being
Left Alone. This Is Extremely Selfish And Once Again, The Man Is Okay
With It Knowing You Are Tortured Being Left Alone, So Long As He
Doesn't Have To (god Forbid!) Talk About Issues•
4• YOU AGREE TO DISAGREE ON SOMETHING BIG:
Some Couples Are In Denial About The Fact That A Dynamic Exists That
Will Inevitably Either Break Them Up If Not Cause Regular Arguments.
Whether This Be That One Person Is Dead Set On Moving Out Of Town And
The Other Is Dead Set On Never Leaving, Or One Thinks It Is 100% Okay
To Be Friends With Exes And The Other Thinks It's Totally
Inappropriate, There Are Some Issues That You Can't Just Agree To
Disagree On. You Need To Either Debate It Out Until You Both Agree On
It, Or-Sorry To Say It-End It. Because Otherwise You'll Be Fighting
Forever•
5• HE SEEMS UNAFFECTED:
If You And Your Man Get Into A Huge Fight, It Affects You, You
Struggle To Concentrate On Work. You Are In Your Own Head When Around
Your Friends, Otherwise The Only Thing You Can Talk About With Them Is
Your Fight With Your Man. If Your Man Seems Completely Unaffected By
Your Fight-If He Partying With His Buddies As Usual, Walking Around
With His Head Held High And Acting Like He Doesn't Have A Care In The
World-Then Your Relationship Is Not That Important To Him. He Should
Feel It When There Is Tension. You're Not Just An Annex To His Life.
You're Not An Acquaintance. You're His Girlfriend•
6• HE AIMS BELOW THE BELT:
Never, Ever Should A Relationship Be A Competition. If Your Partner
Has A Criticism For You, He Should Bring It Up Because It Affects Him
And The Relationship Negatively Because He Wants The Relationship To
Run Smoother. But If Your Man Brings Things Up Just To Hurt You,
That's A Sick Kind Of Love. If You Love Someone, You Should Try To
Work Out Bumps In A Way That Is Most Pleasant For Everyone. Never
Should Your Partner Take Joy In Seeing You In PAIN•
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