BREAKING Up Is Hard To Do. Regardless Of Whether YOu're The Dumper Or
Dumpee, If YOu Find YOurself In An Ending RelatiOnship, Try To Refrain
FrOm Saying The FOllowing Things. SOme Of Them Are Cliché, SOme Will
Be Interpreted As Insincere, And Others Will Likely ße Regretted In
The Days That FOllOw. (We DOn't Blame YOu FrOm Thinking Them, Though.)
Ten Things YOu ShOuld Never Say During A Breakup:
1• "I NEVER LOVED YOU•"
Related: "I Wish I Never Met YOu." DOn't Up The Drama Factor Just
Because YOu're Hurt. YOu'RE Hurt Because YOu Did LOVE Him/Her. Be
HOnest With YOurself•
2• "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDZ•"
DOn't Related: "I HOpe Things WOn't Be Awkward." They Will.
3• "I HOPE YOU DIE ALONE•"
Related: "YOu'll Be SOrry." Curses And Threats Of Revenge Are Never
Wise. Take The High ROad And Keep These Destructive ThOughts Tn
YOurself•
4• "IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN SAY OR DO TO CHANGE YOUR MIND?"
DOn't Beg. His/Her DecisiOn Has Been Made. Respect That•
5• Related: "YOu Deserve Better." Self-DeprecatiOn Often COmes AcrOss
As Insincere And Rehearsed•
6• "CAN I STILL LIVE HERE?"
NO, YOu Can't, YOu Shouldn't Want To Either. Let It End•
7• "I NEED SPACE." Related: "I DOn't KnOw What I Want." AvOid Vague
Phrases That Have ToO Many InterpretatiOns. If YOu'RE Initiating The
Breakup, Make Sure YOur Partner Is Clear That Is Is What YOu're DOing•
8. "MY PARENTS never Liked YOU•"
Related: "YOu're A HOrrible Kisser. "DOn't Spew Hurtful COmments And
Insults Just ßecause YOu Can. Keep It Classy•
9• "I LOVE YOU, I'm Just NOt IN LOVE WITH YOU•"
Only Say This If YOu're Prepared FOr A "What The Heck Is ThaT SuppOsed
To Mean?! "As A ReasOn To BREAK UP•
10• "Will YOU MARRY ME?
Never PrOpOse Out Of DesperatiOn. Ever.
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