Repetitive And Dirty, AmOng Other Things.
They Use It Just To HOld On To And Make Their Men Happy. SOme WOmen
Claim To Have A Headache When It's Time FOr Sex, While Others Pretend
They Are Too Tired.
Whats GOING On? Is There Something Our Men Are NOt DOing Right?
Yes, Says Brian Ketcher, A Durban -Based Sex Expert TOld "GREAT MINDZ"
That MOst Men Do NOt KnOw That In Order FOr A WOman To EnjOy Sex, Her
BOdy Needs To Be Ready. NOt Just Mentally Or EmOtionally Ready, But
Physically And Biologically Ready Too.
Brian Says SOme Partners DOn't BOther To Nurture Their WOmen Mentally,
EmOtionally Or Physically. They Just Want To Satisfy Their Own Needs.
"That Is Why It Is Easy FOr A Man To Sleep With A PrOstitute Or A
Helper He Has No Feelings FOr, Than It Is FOr A WOman To Just Pick Any
Man," Brian Says.
He Says AnOther Big PrOblem Is That Many Men Are NOt Aware Of Certain
Things WOmen Feel Uncomfortable About While Having Sex.
Many WOmen DOn't EnjOy Sex Because They Were Sexually Abused In
Childhood, Or Raped In Adulthood.
Brian Adds That In SOme SOcieties Sex Is Presented As Being
Disgusting, Dirty, Ungodly And ImmOral. She Says Finds This MOstly In
ReligiOus COuples.
"THE Majority Of The WOmen Who COme To Me FOr Help Are Religious WOmen
Who Have Rigid Ideas AbOut Sex. SOme Think It Is Dirty While Others
Think That It Is Only Men Who Are Meant To EnjOy It. Others Feel Sex
Is Primarily FOr ReprOductiOn And That Pleasure Is A By-PRODUCT...
Brian Told The GREAT MINDZ CREW Of The QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS GROUP.
He Says There Are Also Medical ReasOns Why SOme WOmen Do NOt EnjOy SEX.
"SOme WOmen Suffer FrOm What Is Called Female Sexual ArOusal DisOrder,
Which Leads To Lack Of Libido."
He Says COnditiOns Such As Diabetes, Thyroid Diseasd, Anaemia,
Childbirth, HOrmones, Lack Of SensatiOn Due To Decreased Muscle TOne,
Painful Intercourse, Menopause, Hysterectomy, And Any Medical PrOblems
That Affect The Sex HOrmones Can Result In A Decreased Sex Drive.
He Also Adds That Ageing, Inadequate FOreplay, DepressiOn, Poor Self
Esteem, Sexual Abuse, Feelings Of Shame Or Guilt About Sex, Fear Of
Pregnancy, Stress And Fatigue, Unhealthy Diets, Excess Weight Or
Obesity, Stressful Lifestyles, DepressiOn, Anxiety And Other EmOtiOnal
PrOblems, Or A COmbinatiOn Of Physical Or Psychological Factors Also
Affect Sexual Desire.
But Asiphe Ndlela, A Psychologist, Also Ties Lack Of Sexual Interest
To A WOman's RelatiOnship With Her Partner.
Ndlela Says Men Need A Place FOr Having SEX, WOmen Need A PurpOse.
"Female Sexuality Is COmplex. At Its COre Is A Need FOr Closeness And
Intimacy. WOmen ALSO Have Physical Needs. When There Is An EmOtiOnal
Or Physical PrOblem, They Can Have Sexual PrOblems." Ndlela Told GREAT
MINDZ CREW Of The QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
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1 comments:
Wow this is such a nice and crucial write up. I think some people should read this it could really help
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