Here's The Thing About Controlling Men: They Unfortunately Have Some
Nice Qualities Too, And Those Are The Qualities You Are Going To Fall
For As A Lady. They Are Probably The Ones That The Man Will Bring Out
The Most While He Is Still Trying To Trap You Into His...Um... I Mean,
Impress You... Lol :-D
By That Time, You're Already Attached To Him. So When He Begins
Telling You That You Need To Tell All Your Male Friends That You Can't
See Them Anymore, Or That He Will Suspect You're Cheating Unless You
Give Him The Password To Your Email And Phone, It's Too Hard To Walk
Away. You Probably Even Tell Yourself It's Because He Cares About Me
SO Much. Reality Check: It's Because He Is Majorly Insecure And Rather
Than Facing That Fact, He Turns His Insecurities Outwards Onto You•
He's Not Paranoid; You Led Him To Feel Like You Were Cheating Right?
And He Isn't A Jealous Type; All Of Your Male Friends Are Actually
Trying To Sleep With You And Break Up Your Relationship, Right?
WRONG•••
There Are A Few Subtle Signs To Look Out For On The First Date That
Are Pretty Accurate Indicators Of Whether Or Not A Man Will Be
Controlling. If You See Them, RUN•
1• HE INSISTS ON PICKING YOU UP:
He Tells You You're On The Way Anyways. That You Will Get Lost If You
Try To Find The Place Yourself. He Even Laughs At You When You Say
That You Have A First-Date Policy Of Always Meeting The Guy There.
Controlling Men Think That They Know What's Best For A Woman,
Inferring That They Think It's Cute We Have These Little "Policies"
But That They're Actually Useless•
2• HE SCRUTINIZES THE RESTAURANT:
The Chairs Are Uncomfortable. The Hostess Seems Ditsy. Did That Waiter
Even Wash His Hands At The Busing Station? You'll See That His Eyes
Moves Around The Restaurant A Lot. Controlling Men Have A Keen Eye For
Detail. They Will Use It Later To Tell You That You Stared At Another
Man For Too Long Or That You Flinched When You Answered Their
Question•
3• HE GETS MAD- BUT NOT AT YOU:
You Spill A Drink On Him, Or You Were Wrong About What Time The
Parking Garage Closes And Now He Can't Get His Car. He Will Look At
The Ground, The Wall, The Sky-Anywhere But At You- While He Clenches
His Jaw And Swears. You'll Tell Yourself Well... He Didn't Swear At
Me... But Trust Me, A Guy Like This Can Only Try To Control His Temper
For So Long. If You End Up Dating Him, He Will Have No Problem Looking
You In The Eye And Saying The Same Things He Said To That Wall•
4• HE DOESN'T SPEND MUCH TIME WITH FRIENDS:
And If He Doesn't, He Will Expect You Not To Either. Pay Attention At
Dinner To See How Many (If Any) Stories He Tells About Fun Things He
Has Done With His Buddies Recently. See How Many Of His Stories In
General Involve Friends, And If The Friends Are Consistent (i.e, Can
He Keep Friends?) If This Guy Doesn't Have A Social Life, He Will
Expect You To Be His Social Life. And He Won't Be Happy About You
Having Your Own•
5• HE ORDERS FOR YOU- AND YOU DIDN'T ASK HIM TO:
I Don't Care How Many Times He Has Been To The Restaurant And How Many
Items On The Menu He Has Tried. I Don't Even Care If He Went To
Culinary School. In This Generation, Men Do Not Order For Women
Anymore. Want To Know What Generation They Did Do That In? Pretty Much
Everyone In Which Women Had Very Little Power. Tells You Something
About Your Date...
6• HE STARTS TOUCHING YOU, EVEN THOUGH YOU DIDN'T GIVE HIM ANY SIGNALS TO:
Controlling Men Don't Read Your Body Language, Or Even Listen To You
If You Say Something Like "I Don't Like To Get Physical On The First
Date... At All." They Want What They Want. And, Once Again, They
Assume Everyone Else's Preferences And Opinions Other Than Their Own
Are Just Silly, And That They Know What's BEST•
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