Probably Around The Time Your Date Goes From Behaving Like Nice Guy
Then Towards A Crazy Man On A Bender, Leaving A Heap Of Hapless
Service Professionals In His Wake•
Picture It: You Sit Down To Dinner, Make Some Sweet Small Talk, Have A
Few Laughs And Jokes, Talking About The Last Episode Of Eastenders And
Turn Your Attention To The Menu. You Say Hmmm Wondering If It Would Be
A Bad Idea To Order Wings And Fries Lol :-D (Yes We At Nandos Lol)
Your Date Has Commented About His Need For A Drink After A Hard Day At
Work And So Far, Your Waitress Hasn't Reappeared To To Take Your Drink
Orders. To Your Horror, He Begins Slamming The Table And Clicking His
Fingers•
Even If Your Date Is RUDE, There's No Need For You To Feed The Beast
And Follow Suit. Instead, You Need To Know How To Compose Yourself
With A Brute Who Is Abusive To Waiters/Staff Or Any Other Poor Help
That You May Come Across On Your Date. So How Can You Carry Yourself
With A Sense Of Dignity Even After He's Checked His Own At The Door?
First Of All, Try To Assess Where He Might Be Coming From: Is He
Generally A Decent Guy Who's Just Having A Bad Day? If So, Then Maybe
Cut Him Some Slack. If It's A First Date, Or Maybe He's Trying To
Impress You By Being Demanding•
"FLASH A Sweet Smile And Say, "You Know, I Used To Wait Tables...
Lighten Up On The Poor Girl, Would You?" If He Apologizes And
Immediately Straightens Up, You Can Likely Save The Evening. If, On
The Other Hand, The Date Gets Worse And He Starts Hurling Rolled Up
Paper Or Can Of Red Bull At A Hapless Waitress Who's Not Producing The
Order Fast Enough, Well, You Won't Be Needing To Order Those Wedding
Invites Afterall•
"If He Keeps It Up, He's Either A Bully Or A Snob. Neither Of Those
Qualities Go Well For A Relationship, So Let Him Pick Up The Check And
Call It A Night," If You've Met In A Restaurant Or Bar That You
Frequently Go To, A Quick Apology To The Waitress Or Bartender On Your
Way To The Rest Room Would Likely Be Appreciated- Along With A
Dramatic Two Thumbs-Down.
Beyond That, How Your Date Behaves Is His Problem And Won't Be Yours
Much Longer. So The Sooner He's Out Of Your Life The Better•
Have You Ever Been On A Date And Your Guy/Girl Turns A Bit Psycho On You???
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Questions And Answers, Or Possibly And Enquiry.
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