First Lets Define What A REBOUND RelatiOnship Means, So We Can All
Benefit FrOm This ARTICLE.
A REBOUND RelatiOnship Is One That Occurs ShOrtly After The Break- Up
Of A Significant LOve RelatiOnship.
With That Bn Said, YOur Friends Warn YOu That YOur New RelatiOnship
Might Be A REBOUND, As YOur Date's Last RelatiOnship Didn't End All
That LOng AgO. Here Are A Few Things To Look FOr If YOu Suspect YOu
Might Be A REBOUND•
1• BITTERNESS:
EveryOne Has Baggage. But If YOur Date Is KnOwn To Mutter "All Girls
Are GOld Diggers," Or "All Men Are DOgs," He/She Still Has SOme
BrOken-Heart Healing To Do BefOre Embarking On A New RelatiOnship
Adventure. Even If The Bitterness Seems Directly Aimed At The Ex And
NOt At The Ex's Gender In General, There's Still A Negative Energy
There That Will Only Stall A New ROmance BefOre It Takes Off•
2• EAGERNESS:
If YOu Get The Sense That YOur Date Is Just Happy To Be Dating
SOmeOne- AnyOne, Really-And NOt YOu In Particular, DOn't IgnOre The
Red Flag. Even WithOut Ill IntentiOns, YOur Date COuld Be Using YOu To
Help Soothe The Sting Of A Breakup Rather Than Taking The Time To
Really Get To KnOw YOu And Fall FOr YOu FOr The Right ReasOns. These
RelatiOnships Are Often LOnely And Ultimately Doomed•
3• THE "EX" TALK:
He/She Talks AbOut The Ex All The Time. He MentiOns That YOu Look Like
Her/Him, Or That YOur Mannerisms Or Interests Reminds Him/Her Of The
EX. He Suggest Places That He/Her EX Has Once Been TOgether On A DATE.
If He/She Is Still PreOccupied With SOmeOne Else, He's NOt Ready To
FULLY MOve ON•
4• THE "EX" REMAINS:
Even Though The Breakup Was Clearly Recent, She Says She's Still
Friends With Her Ex. Sure EnOugh, Facebook COnfirms They're Still In
COntact- Or WOrse, Still "In A RelatiOnship." Picture Frames At Her
Place Have Yet To Be Emptied Of "Happier Times" MemOries. She Still
Wears His Stuff And DOesn't Seem To AcknOwledge That It's
Date-Inappropriate. If The Recent Ex Is Still An Active Part Of YOur
Date's Daily Life, YOu're Likely A Rebound•
5• PHYSICAL, NOT EMOTIONAL:
If YOu're Feeling Like There's Too Much Emphasis On YOur Physical
RelatiOnship, There PrObably Is. A Tell-Tale Sign Of A REBOUND
RELATIONSHIP Is One That's Very Physical, With Little EmOtiOnal
Substance. If YOur New LOve Interest COnsistently Steers COnversatiOns
Away FrOm Vulnerability Or Puts Up A Wall Everytime YOu Try To Dig
Deeper EmOtiOnally, He/She Isn't Ready FOr Anything SeriOus•
6• FRIENDZ ARE SURPRISED HE/SHE'S DATING AGAIN:
If His Friends (Or YOurs) Are Raising Their EyebrOws At The Speed With
Which He/She Started Dating Again POst-Breakup, The New RelatiOnship
Might Be POorly Timed. SOmetimes It's Wise To Trust The Red Flags
COming FrOm Others•
7• COMMITMENT-PHOBIA:
If YOur Date Can't Make A Single RelatiOnship DecisiOn- Or Even A
COmmitment FOr Next Friday Night- He/She Is Likely Still Adjusting To
A Life Of Singleness. She Might NOt Be Used To Operating
Independently. He/She Might Be "Keeping His/Her OptiOns Open" Because
He/She Felt She "Settled" Last Time. A REBOUND RELATIONSHIP Is Often
An Undefined One, With Little Security Or COmmitment Offered FrOm The
Recently Single One•
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