SHOULD WE TALK TO OUR MAN'S EX-GIRLFRIEND FOR PAST INFO?

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Betrayal Hurts. Weeks Or Months Of Happiness Mixed In With The Good
And Bad Aspects That Follow Any Relationship, To Only Be Trumped By A
Painful Alarm Telling You That Your Perfect Man Is A Imposter•
You Don't Need Me To Tell You This, But There's Nothing Enjoyable
About Wasting Your Time With A No Good Man. The Inevitable Is
Impossible To Avoid Without. Who Wants To Sit On Guard And Always
Expecting The Unexpected? That's What Bitterness Is Made Of, It Makes
You Paranoid. It Only Makes Things Worse With Distrust That Come From
Assuming Everyone You Meet Is Merely Seconds Away From Hurting You•
So What Do You Do?
A Warning Shot Would Be Nice, Or Perhaps You Could Pay Better
Attention To Any Warning Signs That Were Waved In Your Face
Beforehand. But If That Doesn't Work...
You Can Always Consider Calling, Texting Or Even Meeting Up With The
EX. What! I Hear You Cry. You Can't Do That, Well A Few Girls Would...
Well At Least Hear The Advantages And Disadvantages•
I Wonder If Javine Wishes She Had Done A Lunch With Alisha To Get The
Low Down On Harvey. Is There Something You Wish You Knew About Your
Former Or Current Boyfriend That His Ex Could've Told You? Something
That Would Have Changed Where You're At Now?
Maybe The Answers To Your Questions Lie With The Woman Who Was There
Before You. History Repeats Itself Time And Time Again. Although
People Have The Ability To Change, Most Often We Imitate Ourselves
Repeatedly When There's Someone New Around Who Isn't Aware Of Who We
Are•
Your Man Might Practice The Same Tricks, Use The Same Lies, And Take
You On The Same Dates He Took Everyone Else On Before You. Having An
"Innocent" Conversation With Your Man's Last Girlfriend Is Probably A
Sure-Fire Way To Learn What's To Be Expected Later Down The Road•
She Knows All His Tactics, His Routines, His Potential Lies, The
Scapegoats He Uses, And His Recipe For Showing LOVE. She Knows Him
Inside And Out, And If She's Willing To Drop A Few Tips In Your Lap,
Is It Wrong To Be All Ears, Or Should You Be Ashamed For Even
Participating In A Conversation With Your Man's Ex?
Well Lets See...

Some Would Say Its Nothing More Than Doing Your Homework- A Simple
Check, Quite Like An Employer Would Do Before Offering You A Position.
It's Not Much More Different Than Copping A Background Check On Him
From The Government, Creeping On His Facebook Page, Googling His
Name... Or Driving By His House At Night To See What He Does When
You're Not Around•

Whereas Most People Will Argue That Consulting His Past Is An Invasion
Of Trust. All Options Come From The Same Field Of Distrust That Bad
Relationships Are Built, Although What Makes It A Scandalous Pursuit
Is That You're Hunting Dirt, Or His Past Won't Bring You Anything
Positive If You Are Looking For Something Negative•

Its Like Looking For The Truth From The Mouth Of A Liar. The Ex Girl
That You Go To Has The Option To Keep It Real, But There's Nothing
Stopping Her From Faking That Smile Or Laugh And Sending You Down The
Wrong Path Either Out Of Jealousy Of You Being The New Girl. Her
Motives For Helping May Coincide With A Hidden Plan To Reclaim Her
Spot In The Long Run•

You Can't Ever Be Sure That Anything She Says Can Be Seen As Credible
Information. You'd Do Better Waiting It Out Or Trusting That There
Will Be A Line Of Error In Every Relationship. But Looking For The
Worse Is Likely What Brings The Worst Out Of Everything So My Thing To
You Is DON'T DO IT•

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